My own guess is that in both directions, people would be shocked by our gender cohort. I've heard stories from men about women's behaviour that makes my toes curl, and some of the things men say to me seem like they must be a parody of bad behaviour.
And if anyone reads the forums for a while, there are absolutely regular rants in both directions. What might be really useful is for both 'sides' to occasionally start a thread with examples. It might be instructive for people who are doing it badly and would rather learn something.
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