Gaining

Not really 'in shape', but I'm definitely just below average-sized.

I always thought coming home to a beautiful lady in pearls and under an apron would be cool. As I pull up to home I can smell dinner from outside and immediately a plate is set in front of me as I set my briefcase down and empty my pockets!
Mmmmm all this food smells so tasty! Wifey says, "I hope you like it, I've been working on this all afternoon". Then I reply, "golly gee Hun, you know I always love what you cook...and I know how you always want me to make a happy plate"!

I think being healthy is important, someone can still be a big healthy manly man and show his wife that he can eat! mmmmmm
I don't think I could ever be attracted to someone who was not in shape...not necessaryily thin, but in shape and healthy.

whats your husbands job?

I myself am a gainer, and I think the bigger I am the happier I would be. But I do like slim girls the best *though on a side bar I'm finding myself more attracted to very large women...both ends of the spectrum, go figure*. But ideally I'd like to have a slim FFA who's inclined to be a feeder also. In my mind that would be perfect.

I have always been in shape. Never ripped or particularly outstanding at sports, but I enjoy the rush of adrenaline on occasion. I have always looked to those women that enjoyed what they looked like regardless of dimensions. True, I tend to befriend those that are never going to think of wearing ridiculously small sizes. I have also always found the idea of a woman growing into her comfort zone very attractive.

Wow, I haven't been here for a long time, and found this great thread.

I SO love the contrast - between hard and soft, between muscle and fat, between very fit and out of shape. Well, even if I was myself out of shape, I'd enormously prefer a fat, quiveringly soft lover whom I would pamper and spoil - but I try to accentuate it by getting lean and hard myself. And when I'm training I like to think "I'm doing it for HER - I'm killing myself training for her, while she avoids all forms of exercise." It helps me get a few more reps .

Thanks to the 'Net - I'd believed that fat people mainly liked to date fat people and that women who didn't work out didn't care for guys who did. I'm beginning to feel hope now.

I am!

im looking for someone chubby to fatten me up, im 19, 5ft 6" and 150lbs

Help ME Katty!!!!

Cute.