Gaining

I am the fattest in my family. The only one almost as big as me was my grandpa.

95% sure I'm the fattest in my family and equally sure I'm the fattest in my group of friends though not by a huge margin in either, maybe 50 pounds at most.

I’m for sure the largest in my family and circle of friends. Some of them accept that. During the pre Covid era when dining out some of my friends and co workers are nice enough to request a table knowing I’m not going to fit in a booth.

Deff the fattest in my immediate family.
2nd fattest among my close friends but she is trying to lose weight currently.
She says I was a bad influence on her LOLOL.

I am the fattest in my family by far.

3rd fattest in the family now. First my sister with about 450lbs, my aunt at about 310ish and I’m not too far behind anymore. My dad and brother in law both lost weight and are now under 250lbs.

Was it easier growing up, since the rest of your
family was larger size, and they weren't pressuring you to lose weight?

Yes and no. It is easy to gain and there is virtually no pressure, but their health problems are a little scary sometimes. I've always felt a little left out. Now that I'm closer to their size I feel a little less like an odd ball.

Max_Lemont:
Would you like to be the fattest or are you happy where you are?[/quote]


I’m quickly catching up but I don’t think I want to be as large as my sis. She has serious mobility issues and hasn’t walked in more than two years.

I’ve recently traded places with my good friend in that he’s recently lost a ton of weight since he’s in a new relationship (opposite of what typically happens) He had been pretty big for years and just as he started losing, I started back gaining (on purpose) and we’ve now passed each other. Interesting timing. The other day he was like “yeah I’ve lost like 8 pounds in the last month” to which I replied with the ol “well I found em”