Other than my wife, who is marginally fatter than I am, I'm the fattest. MIL and FIL were bigger, but the former lost a lot due to ill health, and the latter passed away.
95% sure I'm the fattest in my family and equally sure I'm the fattest in my group of friends though not by a huge margin in either, maybe 50 pounds at most.
I’m for sure the largest in my family and circle of friends. Some of them accept that. During the pre Covid era when dining out some of my friends and co workers are nice enough to request a table knowing I’m not going to fit in a booth.
Deff the fattest in my immediate family. 2nd fattest among my close friends but she is trying to lose weight currently. She says I was a bad influence on her LOLOL.
3rd fattest in the family now. First my sister with about 450lbs, my aunt at about 310ish and I’m not too far behind anymore. My dad and brother in law both lost weight and are now under 250lbs.