I've always dated chubby girls, and my dad was always on my back and asking me if I could get them to diet. I never was with a skinny girl. Dad figured out at I was an FA without saying anything, I told my close friends when I was in my early 20's, and now nearing 30, have only told a handful of my workmates.
My mum is very judgmental, which can really tear me up inside, and although my wife is fat, she's had a go at me about that, but doesn't say much to my wife on the matter. She tries to tell me some of my friends are freaks and crap like that when it's quite the opposite. But I am quite open and honest to those that don't judge. I'm not as secretive about being an FA as I used to be, but I think this site has helped me accept things.
13 years
