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I'm on POF for a few months but need help with my profile please could people help me get the full potential out of my POF profile I haven't had much luck I have chatted to a few girls in my local area but I getting bored of being single all my life and just would like have someone by my side

Take a look and please message feedback www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx

If you’re looking for legit feedback, then consider your profile needs a lot of work.
IMO your profile makes you come across as antagonistic and difficult. Your description doesn’t tell much about your personality, other than a huge interest in entertainment, which could imply to someone you’re a woman that needs to be constantly entertained. There’s very little depth to who you are as a person on your profile. Honestly if I was looking, this would be a profile I’d skip over because there was nothing inviting.

I’d recommend…
Changing up your profile images where they better reflect your personality. Right now each image is way too similar, and in some your facial expressions make you look pissed off and annoyed. Include more constructive hobbies (photography, rock collecting, etc.) or include places you like to visit frequently (the beach, shopping, etc.). If you can go more into detail about your personality, what makes you happy, mad, sad, etc. you can give a better picture of the type of person you are. Also I’d recommend dropping all the antagonistic parts telling people to move on if they don’t like fat chicks or tattoos. Just state that’s who you are and let it go at that.

Lastly, make what you want more clear cut. Your first date section is riddled with question marks, puts way too much work on a guy to try and figure what you want to do. There’s no harm stating your favorite restaurants and favorite places you would love to be taken too, they may end up being someone else’s favorites as well.

[quote]jamesocovlufc wrote:
I'm on POF for a few months but need help with my profile please could people help me get the full potential out of my POF profile I haven't had much luck I have chatted to a few girls in my local area but I getting bored of being single all my life and just would like have someone by my side

Take a look and please message feedback ]www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx

If you’re looking for legit feedback, then consider your profile needs a lot of work as well.
IMO your profile makes you come across as immature and scattered. There’s way too much focus on who you are and not what you‘re looking for in a partner, which could be mistaken as being self-absorbed. Granted your profile does say 21, so you will be more young at heart than say a 30 year old, but there’s a mess of things going on in your profile that could turn someone away. Your pictures are the most damaging aspect of your profile I feel, despite a lot of good information on your profile.

I’d recommend…
Just deleting most of your pictures. I can’t even identify who you are in the human pyramid, it took me a while to realize you were rollerblading in one picture, and I thought the picture of the kid was actually a child you had in a previous relationship. Try and get a real professional looking picture to show how interested and serious you are for a relationship, no myspace mirror pics. The pictures of you come across way too casual, and to me seem to imply you’re looking for fun, which could be interpreted by women as a one-night stand kind of guy, etc. Flesh out what you’re looking for in a partner so someone looking at your profile can determine if you’d be interested in them.

Thanks I'm currently updating my profile to what you said forgot to write is the headline ok can never think of something suitable or short enough

Hi alabaster25

I have updated my profile & deleted some photos & put some more on please look again if you think I have improved it

Thanks

www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx

Why not say you prefer chubby women who are happy with their size and have no interest in dieting?

PS "Plus size" might be more politic than "chubby".

Out of interest, how did you manage to do that?

Interesting. Are there any particular keywords for which people search?

I'm not sure where the purported 1/10 figure comes from - these things are inherently hard to measure - but this one is easy to avoid by following the simple rule of not sending large quantities of money to people that one's never met before.