Extreme obesity

This!!!

Oh PinkyDear, how I would love to be in a mutual gaining relationship exactly like you posted above. I can't think of anything hotter than doing that together and growing ever fatter.

My feeder making me so fat that I can't reach around my huge gut to pleasure myself... I would be dependent on her even for that...

Laziness does nothing for me, either in fantasy or reality.

I don't think there is any limit to what could turn me on about myself; I just am objectively sexy. But anything my wife likes about me, I instantly think is sexy about me too.

In reality, I like the idea of her loving herself and actively participating in and loving how she is changing. Not denying that she wants another piece of cake and enjoying it. Checking out her belly while getting dressed and not pouting, but smiling is great. Buying new clothes and modeling them for me. Working out hard and telling me how it was difficult, but more fulfilling since she could still do it. These things turn me on.

In fantasy, if either one of us was actively gaining, that the other wouldn't feed as much as encourage. I don't see this as a very satisfying fetish if there is no one to witness all the work I put in. I need someone to be watching my eating feats and watching me anticipating results. I would want someone to point out excess calories to me like people that don't understand vegetarians point out salads to me at restaurants - "They have a nice milkshake".

To feed my feedee, massage her huge belly. While I rub it I create a huge gas bubble. She sighs dreamily, then lets out a thunderous belch.

Think it's a combination of coming home from work to find her on the sofa naked, stuffing herself all day long and just getting bigger and bigger. Then I give her a hand for the evening. That and finding that she has become trapped in the kitchen, still stuffing her face and bursting out of her clothes.

That and a few other things...

All of the above turn me on like crazy. And the second list that you posted is a huge turn on as well.

For myself the point of no return, I finally feel free i know that I'll never fit into my 38" waist jeans and im ok with that.

I have to agree it sounds really really awesome, your desires are great Lscott13

Oh God this would turn me on so much. This scenario and the one I posted on the other board in response to your query would be my ultimate relationship experience.