Submission and domination

When I decided to gain, my ultimate goal was softness. I wanted to be heavy, but I wanted all that weight to be soft blubber, with zero muscle tone.

As I began gaining, I made a point to limit my activity in order to make my muscles soft and weak and flabby. I love the idea that I'm big yet much weaker than those much smaller than I am.

It was all about the food at first and I didn't really even pay attention to the softness until I started to feel new experiences from the fatness and I got addicted to wanting to feel newer ones and the only way that I could do that was to consume even more

I just had to bump this up fir my own continued pleasure. Any thing to add?

so erotic...as im sartingto get breathes after a flight of stairs

It’s nice to know I’m not the only one who’s done an about face from being somewhat athletic to wanting to get fat and blubbery. I was a runner, mountain biker and weight lifter for many years, the last stage was weight training power lifting style. I came to love fat padded muscle on guys, with a round belly, and switched my attention to that. I saw a shore town cop in his summer uniform of tight white polo shirt and tight blue shorts. He had massive traps, arms, legs, and a big round belly. I still think about him and um... fantasize.

After a couple of surgeries on my shoulder and back I realized my weightlifting days were over. I started getting fat and liked it. I’m getting soft; my chest is becoming squishy moobs (a definite turn on); my belly, which was the round and hard type seems to be getting softer; I’m getting soft rolls under my armpits. I don’t really have much of a fupa yet, but I’m waiting. I want to see my belly get to ripple when I move, and hang over my belt rather than just protrude.

Watching a former athlete go fat is definitely erotic.

wow... this really resonated with me, and where i am now... and i am kind of surprised how much i like it!

As someone who’s not exactly into the athletic-to-fat kink, I’m curious: what’s y’all’s take on those trainers who get fat and then back to fit with their clients?

I find it kind of gimmicky but it is a new take on the trading places concept.

I always fantasize that their bodies lose that capacity at some point, that the yoyoing weight changes their metabolism, suddenly slowing it and at some point they get stuck at the chubby end of the pendulum swing.

Just fantasy, of course.

that was kind of my plan a few years ago... take some time off from the gym, have fun, indulge... and then eventually get back into shape.

it turned out i liked the fun & indulgence part a little more than i expected, lol! so my weight went from 150 to 180, and i thought, "i'm so close to 200 - let's see what that feels like."

i didn't get back to the gym until after i'd gone well past 200 lbs... and it was such a challenge, i got discouraged. i tried to get back into working out a couple of times, but i felt very discouraged by how hard it was, and tbh, embarrassed by how far out of shape i had become.

plus, i'd really discovered the joy of food - something that really hadn't registered with me prior. really diving into the world of food (and drink!) and all the different flavours really became a new passion for me, which made cutting back so hard.

i think if you watch those gimmicky tv shows, they put on 20 or 25 lbs, and yeah, they can lose that. it's because they haven't really embraced that lifestyle. i think i just waited too long, lol!