ChubbyHubby:
I've learned numerous times over life that things can ALWAYS change if the right events happen. I've seen best friends become bitter enemies and bitter enemies become best friends. I've had people that I thought would be in my life forever, drift away despite my efforts to maintain it. I know girls that are happily married to guy they originally couldn't stand LOL. I've seen people change political affiliations and other things that at one point would not have even been imaginable. I find it quite fascinating how people can do a 180 over time, if conditions are right.
That's been the kinkiest part of it all for me as my wife has gained. She wasn't a couch potato, TV watcher, soda drinker, snacker. But the way that the habits mutually feed one another in a downward spiral is interesting to see how she's transformed and has an excuse/reason for doubling down on each fattening habit.
And the heavier she gets the more reasons for acquiring more sedentary, lazy, fattening habits – habits she used to be confused and disgusted at how others could embrace. So it's such a turn on to hear her amazing mental gymnastics why it's totally fine that she's become a lazy, greedy, fattie.