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Ccwolf60   United States
Joined 16 years
TheWhipHand:
A couple nights ago a friend came for dinner. After the butterball cleared the dishes she said, "He's gotten big, hasn't he?" When it was clear I liked this change she smiled and once convinced I approved we had him come in where she said, "you've certainly gotten fat, haven't you?" She asked how much he's gained and I told her, and I showed her how he's getting more round, how fat his side have gotten. She said she thought he was sweet. He went red but he looked pleased.
I got to show off my fat little butterball for ths first time.
getting to show off your good work, that must have put a smile on your face smiley
6 years

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HanselsWitch   United States
Joined 7 years
I live for these stories. I've experienced mine via the chubsters I've dated. The one I'll share happened to my soon-to-be ex-husband. His mother's side of the family is Spanish. First time we visited Spain together they hadn't seen him since he was 15 and rail thin. They don't hold back over there. The second we entered the house to meet his extended family, his great aunt rubbed his belly and yelled, "Que gordo!" I burst out laughing, put my arm around him and squeezed his love handle while he turned beet red. Best day of my life. 😂
6 years

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Nofbar   United States
Joined 9 years
SweetLittleTreat:
I've recently put on 26 pounds in the past five months, and over 50 since September and it's been lovely. There haven't been a lot of comments (I'm a bit of a shut in anyways so) but my bestie knows I'm gaining and she's made little comments here and there about how she has no idea how I eat so much and when I tell her funny feedism stories she giggles.

But I went to see my psychiatrist today and she's extremely against fat and weight gain (which that certainly doesn't bother me, but she has engaged in malpractice with me multiple times and I'm seeking a new doctor anyways). She scolded me for such a rapid weight gain and start quizzing me on "where that belly and all this weight" came from, if I "even do anything", and being upset that medications that suppress appetite don't work on me. She was very rude, but she had no idea how her scolding was making me blush! I went out for a nice stuffing and brought lots of nice treats home to celebrate the gain and joke about her scolding. ^-^

Please get away from that psychiatrist NOW. If you need someone to keep prescribing your meds while you look for a new psychiatrist, talk to your GP and explain what's going on. Usually they can do maintenance.
6 years

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Womansbellylover348   United States
Joined 9 years
Good for YOU!!
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Jboabfe   United Kingdom
Joined 10 years
chris400:
Funny thing happened recently with my wife. I had a TIGHT pair of shorts that I was struggling to wear, I had gotten rid of all my "big" clothes and I am definitely staining what pants and shirts I have. After an afternoon and evening where we were stuffing ourselves with ice cream pizza etc. I came home sat down and my button exploded. My wife said oh my god was that your button? then yesterday morning she exclaimed what a big belly I was getting and need to do something since she was going to eat sensibly. Funny thing that night she made me 3 grilled cheese sandwiches for dinner and this morning as I struggled with another pair of way too small 44's with a 60-inch gut. She made a comment of how women like men with a little gut..... Then invited me to have lunch out with her..... confusing. Since she makes comments on my big belly and srinking clothes. But then takes me out to all you can eat and pizza and all the food I want.


Lucky you, sounds like you have yourself a potential closet feeder.
6 years

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HappyBigBelly   United States
Joined 12 years
If family and friends are generally confident in their own shape, it tends to be a non-issue. My own mother makes comments about my belly from time to time, but it's no big deal. I'm just a ball belly and macaroni arms smiley My wife has been mostly overweight since puberty many years ago, so it's kinda just accepted.
6 years

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Bicepsual   United States
Joined 7 years
Had a neighborhood block party last night. My wife gained so much this summer that an Indian mother in the PTO who helped organize our kid's June graduation event with my wife didn't recognize her last night.

Not only that, she actually straight up said "Who? Oh...I didn't even recognize you. Wow, you've gained a lot of weight."

3 months, 50lbs

My wife was embarrassed but it's more of a cultural thing. The Indian woman is almost 100lbs heavier than her and always tend to say insensitive things at their get-togethers because they don't place nearly as much significance on appearance as American women do; ie. don't wear makeup, style their hair and are generally all overweight.
6 years

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Kevingainer   United Kingdom
Joined 8 years
I received the most comments on my weight as I progressed from normal to being slightly obese. Somehow it seemed safe to remark on how much I had gained. As I continued to put on the pounds and became morbidly obese the direct comments stopped. I think this was out of concern that a comment would embarrass me as my weight was clearly a problem.

The only exceptions to this are my family and people who I have not seen for several years. My family, particularly my mum and sister, keep on nagging me about my weight: not that it has made the slightest difference. When I meet up with someone who I have not seen for a while I can see them do a double take. They do not actually mention my weight but it is apparent that they are shocked by the size I have become.
6 years

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Austini89   Denmark
Joined 16 years
My company has offices around the world and in some regions, people are very blunt. I walked into an office in Asia one time after 6 months away and the manager shouted across the office, “wow, you got fat!“ He was right.
3 years

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Mega Fatty   Spain
Joined 7 years
My parents went on holiday for 8 weeks to Spain, I had to dog sit, I ordered as much junk food and Chinese in I could gorge myself on, I went shopping and bought whole chickens, lasagna, burgers, double cream and boxes of Gateau's and other cakes, I gained about 50 lbs, all the weight shot to my arse and thighs. Mum was the first to react, "Oh my god you've put on weight...." Then friends noticed that I hadn't been out, but now I looked massive. Its when I started feeding more.
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