softdesires:
I’m also one!
I’m in a long term relationship with my feedee, and he’s recently decided to start actively gaining. We’ve had a feeder/feedee dynamic for a little over a year, and he’d put on about 25 pounds without making an effort of it. He’s been stuck at 190 for the last six-ish months (after never really being heavier than 165-170 before dating me 😋).
Recently he weighed himself and was mildly surprised that he was only 190, and had mentioned he expected to be at least 210. After a bit of conversation, we decided that would be a good number to aim for and see how he liked the vibes. So this is the start of him trying to gain, and I’m really excited to see how this progresses 😋💛
I seem to be very similar to your significant other. I was never over the 165-170ish most my life. Usually underweight, like 140 most of it. Recently been really really trying to gain. My wife gains almost effortlessly. She loves that I am gaining. But I too am kinda stuck at 190ish. Even been drinking heavy cream. It's friggin hard work! lol. If you both figure out any tips that work to get him over that 190 hump, please let me know!
Thanks!