I don't really agree with this. I started coming out about my fetish last year, and have so far told around 13 people. I feel like transparency is really important staying in our truth, and if people don't like it they can choose to be out of our lives, but why would we want people in our lives who don't really accept us as a whole? I feel like for me the relationships I want with people is unconditional and will accept me in all of my weirdness
