Zelda64:
I do not believe about this New Age-y "asexuality" crap neither. North Americans likes to stick labels on everything and nothing) .
Spike:
As someone who IS asexual, i once had a dream a man touched my shoulder and puked. The thought of people touching me sexually physically makes me SICK. I am sex REPULSED. That is by definition asexual. I used a sex toy and felt NOTHING. I did end up in the ER though as i was magically allergic to it. Fun .
Asexuality is REAL and VALID.
I never had horniness, i never once felt that. Not once. I never felt "Extra wet" down there moreso than the usual or the monthly time. I never looked at anyone or anything and felt myself want them in any way .
Asexuality is REAL . Just because you are hedonistic and cannot fathom the lack of sexuality doesn't mean it does NOT exist. ***.
John Smith:
You haven't read me carefully-- and that what bothers me a LOT about this forum. People are already emotionally mounting on their high horses before reading and getting the nuance.
I said exactly I was exactly like the original publisher when I had his age. I would even add that younger, the idea of sex or anything sexual revulsed me, in spite being romantically and somewhat sexually drawn into girls when I was a teenage boy.
BUT I don't give any belief to a buzzword. I do not believe into the label. Its underlying inherent tribality. Yes North Americans likes to stick labels for everything and nothing these days, while momentarily preaching about being colourblind, genderblind, blind-anything.
The last time I've seen such lenghts of commercialized solipisism that profits only for the utmost privilegied and the powers that be, these were not "I am this label, this that, hence that" : that were "I am Watutsi, I am Bahutu, I am Pygmy. I am half-master race, you are full N-word, and YOU live naked on trees". Shuiiip... the rest is History, as you know. And people never learns. How many 20th centuries, Auschwitzs and West Banks does we need again? How many Apartheids and redlined middle class neighborhoods does we have to ignore?
Just think out of the box.
I do not believe about this New Age-y "asexuality" crap neither. North Americans likes to stick labels on everything and nothing) .
Spike:
As someone who IS asexual, i once had a dream a man touched my shoulder and puked. The thought of people touching me sexually physically makes me SICK. I am sex REPULSED. That is by definition asexual. I used a sex toy and felt NOTHING. I did end up in the ER though as i was magically allergic to it. Fun .
Asexuality is REAL and VALID.
I never had horniness, i never once felt that. Not once. I never felt "Extra wet" down there moreso than the usual or the monthly time. I never looked at anyone or anything and felt myself want them in any way .
Asexuality is REAL . Just because you are hedonistic and cannot fathom the lack of sexuality doesn't mean it does NOT exist. ***.
John Smith:
You haven't read me carefully-- and that what bothers me a LOT about this forum. People are already emotionally mounting on their high horses before reading and getting the nuance.
I said exactly I was exactly like the original publisher when I had his age. I would even add that younger, the idea of sex or anything sexual revulsed me, in spite being romantically and somewhat sexually drawn into girls when I was a teenage boy.
BUT I don't give any belief to a buzzword. I do not believe into the label. Its underlying inherent tribality. Yes North Americans likes to stick labels for everything and nothing these days, while momentarily preaching about being colourblind, genderblind, blind-anything.
The last time I've seen such lenghts of commercialized solipisism that profits only for the utmost privilegied and the powers that be, these were not "I am this label, this that, hence that" : that were "I am Watutsi, I am Bahutu, I am Pygmy. I am half-master race, you are full N-word, and YOU live naked on trees". Shuiiip... the rest is History, as you know. And people never learns. How many 20th centuries, Auschwitzs and West Banks does we need again? How many Apartheids and redlined middle class neighborhoods does we have to ignore?
Just think out of the box.
And there he goes again.
A woman telling him that hes wrong and asexuality exists, he pulls out Auschwitz and Apartheid from his ass like it has any relevance.
I'd play Sun City tho ;-)
3 years