A lot of people talk a good game but I'd bet 90% of them wouldn't last in a relationship with an immobile or near-immobile partner.
First of all the cost of food to keep someone actively gaining is out of this world, you need to have deep pockets to afford buffet type feedings daily or consistently. Its one thing to hook up with a feedee for a weekend, its another thing to live with one. Obviously genetics and metabolism are a big factor in how large someone is, its not always about food intake...but when you hear women on OF say they need $50 for one stuffing, imagine 3 of them daily.
Second of all, do you have ANY idea how expensive plus sized and supersized clothing is? A bra at Lane Bryant goes for $50 a whack. Now add in dresses, leggings, shirts, underwear for women or trousers, underwear, beltsand shirts for men....thats at least $200 for one outfit.
Third, better get ready to get acquainted with supersized issues. You need a huge vehicle to be able to get your partner around and either a high quality mobility scooter or sturdy walker just to go anywhere. You'll also need a bidet or a custom made toilet because normal toilet seats arent meant for 500+ pound keisters. Also youll need reinforced couches, beds and chairs which are all expensive.
Thats not counting the health issues that come with it meaning several trips to the ER for bedsores, heart palpitations, trouble breathing or injuries sustained from simple falling or breaking furniture. Thats not counting serious health issues like pneumonia, lupis, covid or diabetes.
Last, get ready to do all the work yourself. Not just cooking, cleaning and simple chores. If your partner really cant move that means you'll have to bathe them and wipe their behinds if necessary. The fantasy sounds hot, but the reality is far different. Coming home after working hard or you have a bad cold and still have to cook, clean, do chores and bathe/wipe your spouse...sounds fun doesnt it?
Again, you can talk a good game, but is that what you REALLY want? Is it??
First of all the cost of food to keep someone actively gaining is out of this world, you need to have deep pockets to afford buffet type feedings daily or consistently. Its one thing to hook up with a feedee for a weekend, its another thing to live with one. Obviously genetics and metabolism are a big factor in how large someone is, its not always about food intake...but when you hear women on OF say they need $50 for one stuffing, imagine 3 of them daily.
Second of all, do you have ANY idea how expensive plus sized and supersized clothing is? A bra at Lane Bryant goes for $50 a whack. Now add in dresses, leggings, shirts, underwear for women or trousers, underwear, beltsand shirts for men....thats at least $200 for one outfit.
Third, better get ready to get acquainted with supersized issues. You need a huge vehicle to be able to get your partner around and either a high quality mobility scooter or sturdy walker just to go anywhere. You'll also need a bidet or a custom made toilet because normal toilet seats arent meant for 500+ pound keisters. Also youll need reinforced couches, beds and chairs which are all expensive.
Thats not counting the health issues that come with it meaning several trips to the ER for bedsores, heart palpitations, trouble breathing or injuries sustained from simple falling or breaking furniture. Thats not counting serious health issues like pneumonia, lupis, covid or diabetes.
Last, get ready to do all the work yourself. Not just cooking, cleaning and simple chores. If your partner really cant move that means you'll have to bathe them and wipe their behinds if necessary. The fantasy sounds hot, but the reality is far different. Coming home after working hard or you have a bad cold and still have to cook, clean, do chores and bathe/wipe your spouse...sounds fun doesnt it?
Again, you can talk a good game, but is that what you REALLY want? Is it??
3 years