Faithinstrangers19:
Ironically I (fit guy) seem to struggle to get the interest of chubby girls... they literally never match me and never seem that interested even when I flirt irl.
Perhaps this is arrogance talking but I was quite surprised to discover this since I assumed the fact how I was fit and muscular would work to my advantage here.
I give off a friendly and open vibe as far as I know so the only thing I can think of is that perhaps me being fit is making them feel a bit daunted or insecure about their own bodies. These aren’t 500lb girls mind you, just girls who have a bit of a belly.
Of course there’s a chance they just don’t find me attractive, but it seems too extreme.
Meanwhile I seem to get a bit of attention from “gym girls” but of course it’s not worth much because I’m turned off by that body type.
So I’m wondering how you would react to a fit person showing interest in you. Would you feel unsettled? Assume they’re just desperate? Trying to lead you on? Or is their physique not really a factor?
With respect to meeting chubby girls, have you attended a BBW event?
