c00kie:
For me, it would have nothing to do with your body type...
It really depends how you came across. Do you seem genuine, are you funny, are you kind... or are you just creepy, full of yourself etc.
This.
I’m much less worried about how someone looks and much more aware about how they are as a human being.
I met my current and very fit partner on a dating app. His words and sense of humor jumped out at me and I was smitten from jump and immediately messaged him.
He said I had been on his radar for awhile but he was shy!
One thing that does tend to catch my eye on dating apps is when someone says something along the lines of, what you look like is irrelevant to me and then they list the things that actually matter to them.
This is a direct quote from my partner’s profile...
'Strong woman' with a high tolerance for massages and cunnil[CENSORED]. Funny and incorrigibly playful. High EQ. Sensitive, but not as over-sensitive as me (I bleed kittens, it's not manly). A caring person. Authentic as fuck. Seeking deep connection. Sexual tornado. Alright with polyamory, and alright with my weird ass.’
I read that and immediately thought, he’s looking for ME!
And we still giggle about how perfectly he described me!
I think the ‘trick’ is to be authentic and let that speak for itself.
