Personally, I love the idea of starting with a "blank slate" and being there every step of the journey, but reading all of this makes sense so maybe a girl who is slightly chubby would be better (and she'd already look awesome to)
I'm not into overly thin on girls, no bones and anno stuff, but by the same token I do not want to be with a girl who wants to gain past mobility and become unhealthy. Starting off with an already large girl would limit the amount of room to move (figuretivly and literally)
Of course though, nothing wrong with fantasising about immobility, i'm just not into a co-dependent relationship.
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