I usually don't think about it. But when I do I notice I often am the biggest person in the room. Particularly among my extended relatives. I am definitely the fattest. I have to admit the happiest I ever was at a party was with 25 other couples at a friends birthday party. I did not know all the people but everyone in the room except for one couple was as fat or fatter than I was. I thought I had died and gone to heaven being at a party where practically everyone was fat and gorging themselves on food and drink. I also found myself incredibly turned on most of the night.
I would happily be the thinnest person in the room. Not because I want credit for being smaller than others, but because I want the encouragement of being around people fatter than me