General

Some things that come to mind are kindness, accepting me for who I am and not what they want me to be, humour, communication, hygiene, independence, mutual supportiveness.

Also cooler temperaments and non-controlling natures. I've been hurt by way, waaay too many people outside of relationships who have bad tempers/are control freaks so those traits are the last thing I want in them, I want to relax and get away from those kind of people when I'm in a romance (got lucky and never dated anyone with those traits at least). They're a complete anathema to me.

Honesty, communication, respect, kindness, emotional maturity, independence, shared sense of humor, intellectually stimulating, hygiene, compatible love languages.

shadowddr:
WOW ALL THAT?!?!?!?

doublefrosted:
Yes, all that. If I'm going to be in a serious, long term relationship with someone I shouldn't have to settle for anything less, and I won't.[/quote]

I'm guessing hygiene scares most of them off🤣

Yes, all that. If I'm going to be in a serious, long term relationship with someone I shouldn't have to settle for anything less, and I won't.

Ah, I'm sorry. I deleted to repost to fix a typo in my quoting. And in answer to your post, probably!

I just want to make it clear that I find suggestions and propositions like this from complete strangers unappealing and, frankly, cringy. Please stop.

in shadowddr profile in his about me, he sounds like a total creep

Wait, you mean the 42 year old with no pics and a giant run on sentence in his profile asking random strangers to take a bath with them isn't totally normal behavior?🤣

Don't blame this on speaking English as a second language. I have many friends who speak English as a second or even third language. Some of them don't speak very good English either. But not a single one of them would do what you just did.

Nadie te discrimina, cabron. Tienes que tratar mejor a las mujeres.