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Feedmesqueezeme   United Kingdom
Joined 4 years
Thanks for all the responses I really appreciate them. It’s just really made me think about everything lately!
2 years

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Ditzy   United States
Joined 11 years
Its best to get opinions from all sides.
Do what is best for you.
2 years

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Fivepointno   United States
Joined 14 years
You have also multiplied your fat cells so it’s tough to slow down once you start
2 years

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Startnew   Portugal
Joined 7 years
Guestoflegend:
Your health is important (if you care about that).
The fetish is just that, it also leaks into fantasy elements that are unwise or unrealistic.

If the urge is always going to be there, indulge it while you are young still.

Once you are older it all comes at great risk and can come back to bite you.

Also keep in mind that if it's strictly a sexual thing, your libido may wane as you get older and you won't necessarily enjoy it the way you do now. Even if you're stuck with a heavier body.


Thanks. Just this.
2 years

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RoundRosy   United States
Joined 2 years
I feel I’m on the cusp of losing control and not sure what will happen next. . Last month crossed 250 at 5’4 and some days it makes me nervous. Never crossed 200 before Covid months thanks to diet pills etc. once I got that close. … and especially after years of family “ concern” about me getting so heavy. Now my husband has openly admitted how much he loves my gain and has been more actively encouraging it… Last night ordered second take home dessert for me behind my back and although I pretended to be dismayed, I ate it on the way home. I don’t want to go back to the old days either…. and I love how much softer and rounder I feel….
2 years

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Munchies   United States
Joined 3 years
RoundRosy:
I feel I’m on the cusp of losing control and not sure what will happen next. . Last month crossed 250 at 5’4 and some days it makes me nervous. Never crossed 200 before Covid months thanks to diet pills etc. once I got that close. … and especially after years of family “ concern” about me getting so heavy. Now my husband has openly admitted how much he loves my gain and has been more actively encouraging it… Last night ordered second take home dessert for me behind my back and although I pretended to be dismayed, I ate it on the way home. I don’t want to go back to the old days either…. and I love how much softer and rounder I feel….


I'd discuss this with your husband. Let him know what your fears and thoughts are so you two can find a way to practice feedism in a way that makes you both happy.
2 years

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RoundRosy   United States
Joined 2 years
Thanks. Have had a chat with my husband …. So he now plans to surprise me with extra treats no more than 3-4 times a month. Found an extra quart of my favorite ice cream last week… fine by me!
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Getobese   United States
Joined 4 months
Fivepointno:
You have also multiplied your fat cells so it’s tough to slow down once you start
YES SO TRUE…taguenutrition.com/fat-cells-battleground-unwanted-weight-gain/
2 months

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The Donut King   United States
Joined 22 years
Fivepointno:
You have also multiplied your fat cells so it’s tough to slow down once you start

Getobese:
YES SO TRUE…taguenutrition.com/fat-cells-battleground-unwanted-weight-gain/[/quote]

It doesn't load, but the extra fat cells are definitely present here. Lol
2 months

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MottiF   Israel
Joined 7 years
Ditzy:
I know the feeling and I too fear losing control again.
There is a point where doing simple things becomes difficult because you are so fat.
People with a fantasy that are around you most of the time fail to see that as a problem.

Feedmesqueezeme:
Thanks and yeah, that’s what I’m worried about. I really enjoy feedism but the thought of losing control and being unable to do certain things is worrying. I have spoken to my partner though about this and we are just trying to enjoy it but not full time


I would be open about it with your partner. Feedism is all about agreement. Let him know about your concerns. While getting fat could be fun at first, it’s not very good to lose control, better share your feelings. Things are becoming very hard and difficult once you pass a certain level of fatness.
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