I'm with Angie. On both counts. Do NOT be showing me things I didn't ask to see--and trust me, I *won't* be asking to see that if you're hoping to show it to me.
And I think closet FAs are significantly to blame for a lot of the stuff that gets dumped on us. Sure we should be confident, but if the vast majority of men who think we look good can't stand to be seen in public with us, how on earth are we SUPPOSED to feel, huh?
Just sayin'.
15 years
