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My wife is the only person who knows all aspects of it. My best friend knows a little. Another friends wife knows a little because she is into some of the same things and we both figured that out about each other and talked about it. Friends and family know I prefer larger women, which my wife has become over the years. Other than that no one knows anything and other than my wife, the people that do know don't know all the nitty gritty details. Overall, I think ones sexual life is their own and private. The only ones who get to know anything are the ones you want to tell. Even then I think mostly limiting to people you are with and at a point in your relationship that trust and communication are at a level to say something. But, to each their own.

My fetish is so top secret, it feels like I'm living a double life lol.

On one hand, I feel no need to talk about my sexual habits in public. In most circumstances, I don't think family or friends ever need to know what gets me off, especially when it relates to how I interact with my partner. That can stay between me and her.

I've had two long-term partners who I've told about feedism, but neither was very interested in engaging in it or even talking about it. So really, it just stays with me.

My wife is the only one who knows and that will be most likely it.

Yes it’s very top secret. While I openly talk about how I’ve gained weight and don’t mind, nobody knows that I enjoy how big I’ve gotten and how I want to be even bigger in the future.

I don't think it's anyone else's business. Aside from partners who were into it anyway, I've never told anybody that it's a kink. So far none of my friends or family have commented on my weight, but if they did, I'd just blame my metabolism.

Exactly. I'm not having them picturing that, lol. Besides, I don't think most people notice really. My clothes have been getting a bit tighter on me, but no one's said anything yet. I don't think it's really noticeable.

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My close friends and wife know that I love fat women and my wife knows that all the added weight she's put on has turned me on even more. I don't think anyone knows that I've toyed with gaining myself and the idea of getting fatter is exciting to me.

No one knows about my kink. While my family has noticed my gain weight (most of my clothes are tighter than before) and ask me to train more and go back to my previous shape, I keep my real reason for gaining weight in secret.

Imagine them knowing I am gaining weight in purpose, that would be really bad.

before i got fat, i had dated fat people and took on the role of feeder in most of my relationships. when you are with fat and growing people over the course of 20+ years, you don't really have to tell people. to most friends and acquaintances they didn't know the kink aspect, but they knew i preferred bigger, fatter partners.
the kink aspect, to me, is personal. it's like, do you casually talk to people about their interest in bondage, or anal sex? i hope not, because for the most part they aren't interested in that and probably don't want to know! that is what these communities are for - we have a shared interest.