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Why do people hit me up, start chatting and then ghost me right away?

StoryEnjoyer:
Maybe some people just get spooked? I know that sounds weird but maybe some folks are good with the back and forth and then suddenly are like "wait I don't want to build a relationship with this person" Or maybe they are just into this as a fetish and nothing more and when they get the erm, "clarity" they seek they dip.

I had an experience where I was messaging someone local to me, was going great then I may have screwed something up or maybe she just got spooked by the whole thing and she cut it off immediately. That is okay though, it just happens!


Ghosts getting spooked - pun intended?
2 years

Why do people hit me up, start chatting and then ghost me right away?

FeedeePet:
Have on probably 3 occasions now had someone reach out to me enthusiastically, get my other socials, chat with me a bunch etc… I start to feel like I’m building a real connection and then i get ghosted. Not just regular ghosted, full acct deletion ghosted.

Wtf is wrong with people?

If you like my profile and are interested that’s great!
But don’t start hitting me up, asking me for other socials, asking me about myself to get to know me, unless ur gonna hang around at least a little.

Idk, just tired of people doing this. Especially since THEY ARE THE ONES MESSAGING ME TO BEGIN WITH!

Makes me so mad. If you’re gonna hmu just to delete your acct the next day, do us both a favour and *** / don’t talk to me.

Childish behaviour from grown adults twice my age, insane lmao.


I can completely relate! It's happened numerous times and it sucks. I agree with some of the responses though, usually, I try to think optimistically and assume there had to be a reason why they left if they were so committed in the first place. Truthfully, I'm only getting a breadcrumb of their life, I don't truly know who they really are or what's going on in their life. I'm sorry that's happened to you though.
2 years
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