Femmepiggy:
Have on probably 3 occasions now had someone reach out to me enthusiastically, get my other socials, chat with me a bunch etc… I start to feel like I’m building a real connection and then i get ghosted. Not just regular ghosted, full acct deletion ghosted.
Wtf is wrong with people?
If you like my profile and are interested that’s great!
But don’t start hitting me up, asking me for other socials, asking me about myself to get to know me, unless ur gonna hang around at least a little.
Idk, just tired of people doing this. Especially since THEY ARE THE ONES MESSAGING ME TO BEGIN WITH!
Makes me so mad. If you’re gonna hmu just to delete your acct the next day, do us both a favour and *** / don’t talk to me.
Childish behaviour from grown adults twice my age, insane lmao.
Have on probably 3 occasions now had someone reach out to me enthusiastically, get my other socials, chat with me a bunch etc… I start to feel like I’m building a real connection and then i get ghosted. Not just regular ghosted, full acct deletion ghosted.
Wtf is wrong with people?
If you like my profile and are interested that’s great!
But don’t start hitting me up, asking me for other socials, asking me about myself to get to know me, unless ur gonna hang around at least a little.
Idk, just tired of people doing this. Especially since THEY ARE THE ONES MESSAGING ME TO BEGIN WITH!
Makes me so mad. If you’re gonna hmu just to delete your acct the next day, do us both a favour and *** / don’t talk to me.
Childish behaviour from grown adults twice my age, insane lmao.
I have had this really quite a lot - even discounting the scammers.
This seems to be the almost inevitable outcome of nearly every interaction here and on similar sites.
I had one person here a few months ago who took a lot of effort to contact me (kept missing me in chat) - we eventually started talking off site very regularly and intensely (every day), and then she suddenly deleted her 3-year-old account here and the app that she used to message me. And it wasn't that doing so was in response to anything in particular that I had just done - the last message that I had sent was a photograph of a river on my walk home - and she replied before deleting.
There have been other instances, too - including a person ghosting mid-conversation in the chat, and standing me up for a third date (years ago; this was also someone who contacted me first) - and then contacting me a year later.
The trouble is that, because the ghosters, by definition, do not stay around, we very rarely know their motivation.
2 years
