Munchies:
Personally, I prefer to get to know someone for months before I pay for stuffings. And this is after they've demonstrated they are perfectly fine to fund their own stuffings.
The first time I pay for any feedee, we sit down and decide what to eat, and how much I am going to pay. Then place the order . At this point, we trust each other with personal information, so that's not an issue.
May not work for everyone, but it works for me.
^^^ This. I agree.
I feel like this is known well enough in the community (that there are some who just want funding) that telling someone you've met that you are reserved with your monetary donations shouldn't come as too big of a surprise to them. Just my thoughts. But, REALLY sorry you had to go through that crappy experience

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