Fat experiences

Saying your comment is derogatory isn’t name calling. If I was name calling I would direct the claim at you and not what you said. Semantics one would think but if I wanted to insult you I would’ve just called you a stupid cunt. I consider claiming bigotry as an insult a disgusting thing to do.
That said, I don’t normally pick fights either nor do I care for the financial over dating focus that many of these places have picked up but the proportional difference is largely just because harassment and poor behavior disincentives using these sites for other things. Pointing and screaming at the sex workers in particular though has some very disturbing context to it on the other hand so I found it quite objectionable.
+1 point for random comment implying transphobia. Good job proving me wrong.

Optimistic

Findom didn't destroy dating. In fact, people who are interested in money first and foremost have always existed and will always exist.

You don't hear sane people talk about how prostitution killed dating. These women might be annoying, but the didn't kill dating.

The issue, is much broader than finances.

Fantasy feeder is not a dating site. Yes, you can find love here, but it's the same as finding love in any place that's not necessarily made to find love.

Let's take FF as a case study. There's a handful of ways to interact with people: forums, DMs, and chat (public amd private). You can gab all day in the forums, but the conversations are aren't happening in live time. And anyone can chime in.

That leaves the chat room and DMs. These are limited unless you are a paying member.

You can vibe in gen chat where everyone tends to be, but it's often dead. And when it's active, you might not find anyone you want to talk to. You could send a private chat, but you're limited to 15 chats a day sans the social upgrade package.

Men are more likely to message a woman first. Unfortunately, most women online are skittish. We are regularly bombarded with messages from vile people, so most of us are cautious as to who we interact with. The main exception to that are the women looking to earn a buck.

There's a similar story with DMs. You can send an unlimited number of DMs, but you can only open 5 in a rolling 24 hour period. So, unless yoi got the social upgrade package, you are going to be very choosy as to who you message. Unfortunately, your average woman is bombarded with messages from vile people, so we are very choosy who we talk to.

The exception to this are newbies who don't know better or women eager to make a buck.

Women who are only in it for the money did not replace women who are not. If you are struggling to find such a woman, the issue is a combination of patience and your approach.

I met my partner of two years on FF. He'd been on the site two years before me. Sure, he met women who wanted money from him. But you know what he did? Declined, wished them well and lived his best life. This was during the peak of the "Tik Tok" invasion.

So, no. These women aren't the reason why you can't find a girl.

Babes, you were the one who specified you were talking about women. Don't be a silly billy just because someone called a spade a spade.

He’s not even denying being a bigot now. 10/10. Effectively triggered.
Bro literally looked up my profile just so he could go out of his way to misgender me 🤣

Yeah, he's triggered, triggering. It's hilarious.

Babes, at this point, I am convinced you have the reading comprehension of a squirrel. And if you can find a partner just fine, then these women haven't ruined anything for you. So I fail to see the problem here.

If you are out here, flourishing, thriving, and in your lane, then why are you bitching about women who's wants aren't compatible with yours? Are they harassing you? Spewing hatred at you? Are they threatening to find your grandmother and do unspeakable things to her?
Curious minds wish to know.

To be honest, I initially thought you were a decent person. But then you started being misogynistic, and kept doubling down. So at that point you lost all my respect.

I can vibe with a different opinion. But when you start with the whole he-man women hating, I will call a spade a spade.

Thats a bit like being mad at the minimum wage cashier for not doing his job fast enough, instead of the milionare who owns the store and employs only 1 cashier...

My point is... Youre barking up the wrong tree. You hate comodification but you dumb shit, not on the capitalist dynamics that are the cause of it, but some people who may simply try to survive.

Yes, its annoying to find what you need (and after that, what you desire) behind a pay wall. But thats the "free market capitalism" people like you (Im guessing) often cheerlead for!

Have some understanding for your fellow human beings, dont be such an egotistic person!

I didnt condem you. Im just saying youre wrong. If you accept that, you can then start trying to figure out how to become a better person. I wish for that.

Look, for example an other mistake i see you do, you communicate your points (weak willed followers exist today, i make assumtions about a person i dont now, and so on) but you dont provide, either an explenation of what you're talking about down to the specific, instead of generalizing, and you also provide no argumentation. Yes, i made assumtions about a person i dont know. That doesnt automatically mean that my assumtions are wrong! In your reply you didnt even said that im wrong! Which would be the usefull thing to do, because i would then know if i am right or wrong on my assumption. With what youve said so far i dont!