Cinstarly:
I’ve gone to the doctor about it and they said to do exercise but that’s completely the opposite of what I want lol not sure how to approach it now. They don’t want to do anything about it unless I lose weight, so I’ve kinda lost hope for me
This might be a hormonal issue. I think weight gain can have different effects on this for men and women, but as I understand in men it can increase the amount of estrogen in our bodies and that can affect libido. If you have a gyno that is open to doing some hormonal tests that might help, my partner went through something similar.
