I experienced this with some guys (even with my actual boyfriend). The bad part is none of them was doing for themselves, I can tell because after we stoped dating, everything changed. Also, my actual bf actually told me at first he lost weight for me.
Anyway, as Muchies said, you should just find a guy who enjoys eating. At first maybe he'll lose some weight and it will take a while until you'll convince him you actually like him fatter, but in the end it will be all good.
This happend with me and my bf. At first he lost weight (from 200lbs to 177), then he started to gain back slowly. Every time when he was seeing he gained more, he was talking about losing it, but his best was staying to the same weight. He didn't lose much after he startrd gaining back...and slowly he believed that I actually liked him fatter. Now he's 230 and he has no intention to lose any weight....but the process to believe me last almost 2 years even if I assured him every time
I think the secret is to find a guy you like for something else than being fat and just be patient with him.
Anyway, as Muchies said, you should just find a guy who enjoys eating. At first maybe he'll lose some weight and it will take a while until you'll convince him you actually like him fatter, but in the end it will be all good.
This happend with me and my bf. At first he lost weight (from 200lbs to 177), then he started to gain back slowly. Every time when he was seeing he gained more, he was talking about losing it, but his best was staying to the same weight. He didn't lose much after he startrd gaining back...and slowly he believed that I actually liked him fatter. Now he's 230 and he has no intention to lose any weight....but the process to believe me last almost 2 years even if I assured him every time
I think the secret is to find a guy you like for something else than being fat and just be patient with him.
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