Prey987654:
I love IT. Being havier than my husband or other men in my life.
My husband is round about 100 lbs lighter than me an it's a turn on, that he dominante me if he want , although he is lighter.
Sureley the mainstream prefers small, skinny girls , but in real life there are a lot of men, that love bigger woman.
My husband says , a woman has to be soft, chubby, warm and an a litle bitt weak ( by can't say no to sweets for examble, or with lower muscles) outside and in her soul.
A man has to be strong and hard outside and he hast to have INSIDE the talent to controll a woman, without her recocnizing it, independent from his size.
How weak is a thin or normal man, that can't stay behind his fat woman because of the mainstream opinion. Many stupid people think , fat girls only have to date fat men or fat men only have to date fat woman. But I think , these guys often have a relationship without deepness.
When the mainstream is aloud to tell you, WHO you have to love, you are lost!
I love this for you. I am so happy you found the love of your life.
But I am going to gently push back on the "have to" thing. There are many ways to be a man or a woman in a happy, healthy relationship. These relationships are just as valid as the one you are in.