Morbidly A Beast:
As long as my belly is full you can dom me or sub me, I think that most guys are probably agnostic or don’t have that kink.
My question is being a ppl pleaser or a general go lucky person be dom? I’m I mistaken in thinking a dom can’t de docile or yielding by nature is it a 1 to 1 with how the person actually is or strictly kink
Munchies:
Have you considered that you just aren't into BDSM? Because that's a viable option. It sounds like you are trying to put on a shoe that doesn't fit
Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not saying I am, I’m just curious about it
Fair. Still, your personality doesn't determine if you are a dom(me) or sub. I know some firecrackers who are subs and some wallflowers who are dom(me)s. Remember that there's no one way to engage in power play.
As for guys not necessarily being into power play (I assume you meant ambivalent instead of agnostic?), it's complicated.
A lot of guys want to be as masculine as possible in the bedroom. For many of those guys, that means they want to be in charge. They'll either identify as doms or express dom-like behavior. However, a good chunk of those guys are only doing it be because that's what they think they should do.
This doesn't necessarily mean they are subs. They just have a narrow idea of how they should express their gender.