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Tru, yet when does it cross the line, that turns it into a 'fetish',yet thats just my mind wondering around

I would say, when fat is the only thing that you care about in that person. Kinda like a foot fetish. If feet turn you on but it’s not a fetish, you love and are interested in the person attached to the feet, if it’s just a fetish, the feet is all you care about. So with a fat fetish, you don’t care if the fat person is nice, funny, cute, shared your interests etc. , you just care that they are fat.

This is an interesting read. But one thing that I do have to say is that just because someone has a preference for liking larger people doesn’t necessarily mean that they have a fetish for that.

I known some guys who say that they are into extra curvy women but absolutely DESPISE feedism. Even that YouTuber Curvy Shrine claimed that he was against it when he was still around. So that’s why I kinda think it’s a little misleading.

Me personally, I can totally be fine being in a relationship without having a fetish for my girlfriend to stuff herself… unless that’s something that she wants to do. But does that stop me from loving her and enjoying her curves or chub? Of course not! This is a tricky subject to figure out, but that’s just my current thoughts on the matter right now.

Yep.

I wish it could be more common in other countries

It might be. They just may not be aware of the community.

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I mean, it makes sense. Do you truly believe that there are so few Israeli feedist out there? They more than likely don't know about it.

I think it's more than 4%. More like 20%. Getting men to admit they like fat girls is difficult. It's also difficult for men who like fat girls to get with fat girls. The fact you like a woman turns her off.

I will agree with you that a lot of guys who like fat women will not admit to it for a variety of women. Not sure about the 20%, but I can't disprove it either.

With that said, liking a women being a turn of for her makes not a lick of sense.

If you liking a woman is a turn off for her, that means she never liked you.

As a general statement, people like people who like them. That's basic human nature. And women routinely enjoy love confessions unless it's from someone we do not want.