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Munchies:
Mm, sounds like a skill issue on your part. I recommend therapy to unpack that.

I'm a muscular black woman dating a fat white man. When we are out and about, no one is paying us any atrention. And when they do, they think we are a cute couple.

No one cares about who you like. And the handful that do are easily ignored

JN_TumLover56:
A skill issue? Really?

You know this comment of mine comes from a good place and not necessarily from self-pity. Even if it sounds like it.

The reason why I say that is because I know that I am not the only person who thinks like this, within and outside of the community. I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

And if I am being honest with you, I have absolutely NO SHAME in liking what I like, I mean I wouldn’t even have this username if I did. Of all the people I have dated (none of whom have ever been equal nor smaller than me) I really don’t care what people think about whenever I am seen with someone bigger than me on a date IRL. However in the online world, people are VERY critical, and as a content creator this is something that I have to be well aware of.

But I have been wrong before, I do acknowledge that. And going back to the topic, I DO hope that I am wrong about all of this especially if it’s about fearing that my fearful delusions would come true. Who knows, maybe it won’t be as bad as I thought… but I suppose we shall wait and see.

I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

Munchies:
As a side note, this is absolutely hilarious. I love it. Imma use it when I'm talking about FF shenanigans with my friends and partner.

Very good use of my name.

JN_TumLover56:
You know this comment of mine comes from a good place and not necessarily from self-pity. Even if it sounds like it.

The reason why I say that is because I know that I am not the only person who thinks like this, within and outside of the community. I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

And if I am being honest with you, I have absolutely NO SHAME in liking what I like, I mean I wouldn’t even have this username if I did. Of all the people I have dated (none of whom have ever been equal nor smaller than me) I really don’t care what people think about whenever I am seen with someone bigger than me on a date IRL. However in the online world, people are VERY critical, and as a content creator this is something that I have to be well aware of.

But I have been wrong before, I do acknowledge that. And going back to the topic, I DO hope that I am wrong about all of this especially if it’s about fearing that my fearful delusions would come true. Who knows, maybe it won’t be as bad as I thought… but I suppose we shall wait and see.

RotundHyperbole:
I think a vaccine or treatment to allow people to consume what they want when they want without gaining weight is a good thing. It'll help in several ways to make this community better.
For example, fewer people becoming feedees just because it is the only way they can find people attracted to them. Fewer people spiraling into depression because they are huge and fat but don't want to be. Fewer surgeries for weight loss. Fewer deaths caused by severe morbid obesity by those who don't want it.

Also, think of the benefits. If you get to a weight or size you're happy with, but don't want to gain any more, or want to focus on your health while still eating like a person barreling down the path to enormity, then you can.

Have to think about the positives and not assume that you don't get to make a choice about these sorts of things. Additionally, a better understanding of what mechanisms impact human's weight gain can only be good for the community. Healthier happier feedees and feeders are great for all. Regardless of weight.

RotundHyperbole:
I think a vaccine or treatment to allow people to consume what they want when they want without gaining weight is a good thing. It'll help in several ways to make this community better.
For example, fewer people becoming feedees just because it is the only way they can find people attracted to them. Fewer people spiraling into depression because they are huge and fat but don't want to be. Fewer surgeries for weight loss. Fewer deaths caused by severe morbid obesity by those who don't want it.

Also, think of the benefits. If you get to a weight or size you're happy with, but don't want to gain any more, or want to focus on your health while still eating like a person barreling down the path to enormity, then you can.

Have to think about the positives and not assume that you don't get to make a choice about these sorts of things. Additionally, a better understanding of what mechanisms impact human's weight gain can only be good for the community. Healthier happier feedees and feeders are great for all. Regardless of weight.

52Percent:
I wonder if this is like Ozempic 2.0 but not designed for weight loss but maintenance?? Hmmmm….

Munchies:
Mm, sounds like a skill issue on your part. I recommend therapy to unpack that.

I'm a muscular black woman dating a fat white man. When we are out and about, no one is paying us any atrention. And when they do, they think we are a cute couple.

No one cares about who you like. And the handful that do are easily ignored

JN_TumLover56:
A skill issue? Really?

You know this comment of mine comes from a good place and not necessarily from self-pity. Even if it sounds like it.

The reason why I say that is because I know that I am not the only person who thinks like this, within and outside of the community. I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

And if I am being honest with you, I have absolutely NO SHAME in liking what I like, I mean I wouldn’t even have this username if I did. Of all the people I have dated (none of whom have ever been equal nor smaller than me) I really don’t care what people think about whenever I am seen with someone bigger than me on a date IRL. However in the online world, people are VERY critical, and as a content creator this is something that I have to be well aware of.

But I have been wrong before, I do acknowledge that. And going back to the topic, I DO hope that I am wrong about all of this especially if it’s about fearing that my fearful delusions would come true. Who knows, maybe it won’t be as bad as I thought… but I suppose we shall wait and see.

Munchies:
Speaking of skill issues ...

I watch Sunn M'Cheaux religiously. He's a Harvard professor who makes content that focuses on socio-linguistics and is a gremlin (not too unlike me).

This man just made a video in which he asks people on Clapper to tag him in spicy content—especially if it involves BBW Ebony. The comments—which include men and women—praise him for his good taste.