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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

Munchies:
Mm, sounds like a skill issue on your part. I recommend therapy to unpack that.

I'm a muscular black woman dating a fat white man. When we are out and about, no one is paying us any atrention. And when they do, they think we are a cute couple.

No one cares about who you like. And the handful that do are easily ignored


A skill issue? Really?

You know this comment of mine comes from a good place and not necessarily from self-pity. Even if it sounds like it.

The reason why I say that is because I know that I am not the only person who thinks like this, within and outside of the community. I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

And if I am being honest with you, I have absolutely NO SHAME in liking what I like, I mean I wouldn’t even have this username if I did. Of all the people I have dated (none of whom have ever been equal nor smaller than me) I really don’t care what people think about whenever I am seen with someone bigger than me on a date IRL. However in the online world, people are VERY critical, and as a content creator this is something that I have to be well aware of.

But I have been wrong before, I do acknowledge that. And going back to the topic, I DO hope that I am wrong about all of this especially if it’s about fearing that my fearful delusions would come true. Who knows, maybe it won’t be as bad as I thought… but I suppose we shall wait and see.
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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

Munchies:
Mm, sounds like a skill issue on your part. I recommend therapy to unpack that.

I'm a muscular black woman dating a fat white man. When we are out and about, no one is paying us any atrention. And when they do, they think we are a cute couple.

No one cares about who you like. And the handful that do are easily ignored

JN_TumLover56:
A skill issue? Really?

You know this comment of mine comes from a good place and not necessarily from self-pity. Even if it sounds like it.

The reason why I say that is because I know that I am not the only person who thinks like this, within and outside of the community. I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

And if I am being honest with you, I have absolutely NO SHAME in liking what I like, I mean I wouldn’t even have this username if I did. Of all the people I have dated (none of whom have ever been equal nor smaller than me) I really don’t care what people think about whenever I am seen with someone bigger than me on a date IRL. However in the online world, people are VERY critical, and as a content creator this is something that I have to be well aware of.

But I have been wrong before, I do acknowledge that. And going back to the topic, I DO hope that I am wrong about all of this especially if it’s about fearing that my fearful delusions would come true. Who knows, maybe it won’t be as bad as I thought… but I suppose we shall wait and see.


I said what I said. If things like this lower your confidence (your words, not mine), that is a skill issue.

Now, there is a separate, very valid conversation to be had about the rising levels of fatphobia. There's alot of forces at play when it comes to systemitizing bigotry, and we should talk about it.

However, if you feel you have a valid reason to worry about your preference for overweight women impacting your capcity to be a content creator, that's well within your ability to handle. I'm not a content creator, but I am in a lot of spaces that are anti-fatphobia. All the creator has to do is put their foot down, and the fans generally police themselves.

No one is 100% in control of their community, but you very much can influence your audience on what is and isn't expected of them.
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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.


As a side note, this is absolutely hilarious. I love it. Imma use it when I'm talking about FF shenanigans with my friends and partner.

Very good use of my name.
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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

Munchies:
As a side note, this is absolutely hilarious. I love it. Imma use it when I'm talking about FF shenanigans with my friends and partner.

Very good use of my name.


Happy to oblige. 👍
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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

JN_TumLover56:
You know this comment of mine comes from a good place and not necessarily from self-pity. Even if it sounds like it.

The reason why I say that is because I know that I am not the only person who thinks like this, within and outside of the community. I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

And if I am being honest with you, I have absolutely NO SHAME in liking what I like, I mean I wouldn’t even have this username if I did. Of all the people I have dated (none of whom have ever been equal nor smaller than me) I really don’t care what people think about whenever I am seen with someone bigger than me on a date IRL. However in the online world, people are VERY critical, and as a content creator this is something that I have to be well aware of.

But I have been wrong before, I do acknowledge that. And going back to the topic, I DO hope that I am wrong about all of this especially if it’s about fearing that my fearful delusions would come true. Who knows, maybe it won’t be as bad as I thought… but I suppose we shall wait and see.


I have been reading some of the previous comments and I get it that you care. I both understand and appreciate that. Of course as much as most of us know that beauty standards suck so much, the same thing also goes with overall health at the same time. It’s a tough thing to accept, if it weren’t for that then I bet the world wouldn’t be so chaotic about weight. However it is possible to find that nuance in between.

Also please don’t let this worry you so much about it. There will always be chubby people around! I see it all the time whenever I wonder through my local shopping mall. So you’ll be fine.
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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

RotundHyperbole:
I think a vaccine or treatment to allow people to consume what they want when they want without gaining weight is a good thing. It'll help in several ways to make this community better.
For example, fewer people becoming feedees just because it is the only way they can find people attracted to them. Fewer people spiraling into depression because they are huge and fat but don't want to be. Fewer surgeries for weight loss. Fewer deaths caused by severe morbid obesity by those who don't want it.

Also, think of the benefits. If you get to a weight or size you're happy with, but don't want to gain any more, or want to focus on your health while still eating like a person barreling down the path to enormity, then you can.

Have to think about the positives and not assume that you don't get to make a choice about these sorts of things. Additionally, a better understanding of what mechanisms impact human's weight gain can only be good for the community. Healthier happier feedees and feeders are great for all. Regardless of weight.


I wonder if this is like Ozempic 2.0 but not designed for weight loss but maintenance?? Hmmmm….
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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

RotundHyperbole:
I think a vaccine or treatment to allow people to consume what they want when they want without gaining weight is a good thing. It'll help in several ways to make this community better.
For example, fewer people becoming feedees just because it is the only way they can find people attracted to them. Fewer people spiraling into depression because they are huge and fat but don't want to be. Fewer surgeries for weight loss. Fewer deaths caused by severe morbid obesity by those who don't want it.

Also, think of the benefits. If you get to a weight or size you're happy with, but don't want to gain any more, or want to focus on your health while still eating like a person barreling down the path to enormity, then you can.

Have to think about the positives and not assume that you don't get to make a choice about these sorts of things. Additionally, a better understanding of what mechanisms impact human's weight gain can only be good for the community. Healthier happier feedees and feeders are great for all. Regardless of weight.

52Percent:
I wonder if this is like Ozempic 2.0 but not designed for weight loss but maintenance?? Hmmmm….


Best I can tell, it's more like ... preventative measures, but some weight loss is possible if it works. The article talks about being able to eat like shit and never gain weight.

sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S088915912400758X

Long story short, they believe that if they can get your gut biome right, it will curb the weight gain at the source. The science is interesting, but I am very curious about its efficacy.
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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

It's an article written by the daily fail, I would take it with a grain of salt. Even if this was possible, it still won't affect us people who want to gain weight and would benefit those wanting to lose weight and enjoy their favorite foods.
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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

If anyone cares, I found the study in its entirety.

sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S088915912400758X
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A vaccine that will prevent weight gain!?

Munchies:
Mm, sounds like a skill issue on your part. I recommend therapy to unpack that.

I'm a muscular black woman dating a fat white man. When we are out and about, no one is paying us any atrention. And when they do, they think we are a cute couple.

No one cares about who you like. And the handful that do are easily ignored

JN_TumLover56:
A skill issue? Really?

You know this comment of mine comes from a good place and not necessarily from self-pity. Even if it sounds like it.

The reason why I say that is because I know that I am not the only person who thinks like this, within and outside of the community. I want to speak because I also want some people feel heard, that kind that fears of getting “munched” by you.

And if I am being honest with you, I have absolutely NO SHAME in liking what I like, I mean I wouldn’t even have this username if I did. Of all the people I have dated (none of whom have ever been equal nor smaller than me) I really don’t care what people think about whenever I am seen with someone bigger than me on a date IRL. However in the online world, people are VERY critical, and as a content creator this is something that I have to be well aware of.

But I have been wrong before, I do acknowledge that. And going back to the topic, I DO hope that I am wrong about all of this especially if it’s about fearing that my fearful delusions would come true. Who knows, maybe it won’t be as bad as I thought… but I suppose we shall wait and see.


Speaking of skill issues ...

I watch Sunn M'Cheaux religiously. He's a Harvard professor who makes content that focuses on socio-linguistics and is a gremlin (not too unlike me).

This man just made a video in which he asks people on Clapper to tag him in spicy content—especially if it involves BBW Ebony. The comments—which include men and women—praise him for his good taste.

youtube.com/shorts/3oEx7LAmt_Q
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