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"soft girl"

Not really. My wife does well in the corporate world and will lay down the law like a Mama Bear.

She used to do gymnastics. She was into demanding sports that require physical and mental strength but are considered feminine.

She's likes to eat and she enjoys girlie things. She really likes masculine men and enjoys when I put on tool belt when I do maintenance on the house.

I've encountered quite a few well fed women like her in the corporate world with similar attributes.

I would describe her as a feminist in the streets and with the man she loves a submissive in the sheets. Which I find very hot.
17 hours

"soft girl"

Modulo9:
Not really. My wife does well in the corporate world and will lay down the law like a Mama Bear.

She used to do gymnastics. She was into demanding sports that require physical and mental strength but are considered feminine.

She's likes to eat and she enjoys girlie things. She really likes masculine men and enjoys when I put on tool belt when I do maintenance on the house.

I've encountered quite a few well fed women like her in the corporate world with similar attributes.

I would describe her as a feminist in the streets and with the man she loves a submissive in the sheets. Which I find very hot.


I mean, you can be a feminist and a sub at the same time. The two are not mutually exclusive.

A lot of people use feminist as a short hand for dominant, aggressive women. In truth, these are two unrelated things. I've met a lot of sub that are feminist, and many of the anti-feminist women I've run into are dominant and aggressive.
17 hours

"soft girl"

Modulo9:
Not really. My wife does well in the corporate world and will lay down the law like a Mama Bear.

She used to do gymnastics. She was into demanding sports that require physical and mental strength but are considered feminine.

She's likes to eat and she enjoys girlie things. She really likes masculine men and enjoys when I put on tool belt when I do maintenance on the house.

I've encountered quite a few well fed women like her in the corporate world with similar attributes.

I would describe her as a feminist in the streets and with the man she loves a submissive in the sheets. Which I find very hot.


Girlboss is something advocated only by liberal, or i shall say bourgeoisie, feminists. To make my point clear, i think liberal feminists are the second worse type of feminism (after TERFs), because it tries to invite women into the rulling class, when the solution is to abolish the rulling class.

Dont get me wrong, i dislike the fact that many women lack certain characteristics that i think everyone ought to have, but are limited as "masculine" only.
Instead, i would really like to be in a relationship with a lady, and for both of us to be equally expected of taking inisiative, to be rationalists, etc. And i absolutely love these, especially inisiative, when it comes to sexual life (maybe to an abusive degree even xD) but i also would really really appreciate it in every day life! And i also appreciate, both sexualy and in general women who are muscular.

Are these things part of a "girlboss" thing? Maybe, on an aesthetic level. But honestly, is there more to it? I doubt.
16 hours

"soft girl"

Modulo9:
Not really. My wife does well in the corporate world and will lay down the law like a Mama Bear.

She used to do gymnastics. She was into demanding sports that require physical and mental strength but are considered feminine.

She's likes to eat and she enjoys girlie things. She really likes masculine men and enjoys when I put on tool belt when I do maintenance on the house.

I've encountered quite a few well fed women like her in the corporate world with similar attributes.

I would describe her as a feminist in the streets and with the man she loves a submissive in the sheets. Which I find very hot.

Enas:
Girlboss is something advocated only by liberal, or i shall say bourgeoisie, feminists. To make my point clear, i think liberal feminists are the second worse type of feminism (after TERFs), because it tries to invite women into the rulling class, when the solution is to abolish the rulling class.

Dont get me wrong, i dislike the fact that many women lack certain characteristics that i think everyone ought to have, but are limited as "masculine" only.
Instead, i would really like to be in a relationship with a lady, and for both of us to be equally expected of taking inisiative, to be rationalists, etc. And i absolutely love these, especially inisiative, when it comes to sexual life (maybe to an abusive degree even xD) but i also would really really appreciate it in every day life! And i also appreciate, both sexualy and in general women who are muscular.

Are these things part of a "girlboss" thing? Maybe, on an aesthetic level. But honestly, is there more to it? I doubt.


Yeah ... this is not the place to discuss the finer points of feminism - especially since you think many women lack certain "masculine" characteristics. But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women. So you're understanding of us is very limited.
16 hours

"soft girl"

Munchies:
Yeah ... this is not the place to discuss the finer points of feminism - especially since you think many women lack certain "masculine" characteristics. But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women. So you're understanding of us is very limited.


Most men also lack these characteristics too!
Also, what does "But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women." mean? (sorry, i just didnt understand what that sentense means šŸ˜…)
16 hours

"soft girl"

Munchies:
Yeah ... this is not the place to discuss the finer points of feminism - especially since you think many women lack certain "masculine" characteristics. But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women. So you're understanding of us is very limited.

Enas:
Most men also lack these characteristics too!
Also, what does "But then, by your own admission, you are not in community with women." mean? (sorry, i just didnt understand what that sentense means šŸ˜…)


To be in community with someone means to be in fellowship. You don't need to be a woman to be in community with women.
16 hours

"soft girl"

Munchies:
To be in community with someone means to be in fellowship. You don't need to be a woman to be in community with women.


Damn it, i dont know if i understand fellowship either xD

Do you mean, i dont often hang out with women, im not in their company, i dont socialize a lot with women?
16 hours

"soft girl"

Munchies:
To be in community with someone means to be in fellowship. You don't need to be a woman to be in community with women.

Enas:
Damn it, i dont know if i understand fellowship either xD

Do you mean, i dont often hang out with women, im not in their company, i dont socialize a lot with women?


noun:Ā fellowship

1.

friendly association, especially with people who share one's interests.

Being in community is more than hanging out. Because there are women that are not in community with women. It's not a gender thing.

Instead, it's about understanding the struggles and joys about womanhood. Why we are the way we are. What it actually means to live as a woman - in all the flavors of womanhood.

I'll grant you that you know more than most of the men who responded in this thread. But there are sizable gaps in your understanding.
15 hours

"soft girl"

Munchies:
noun:Ā fellowship

1.

friendly association, especially with people who share one's interests.

Being in community is more than hanging out. Because there are women that are not in community with women. It's not a gender thing.

Instead, it's about understanding the struggles and joys about womanhood. Why we are the way we are. What it actually means to live as a woman - in all the flavors of womanhood.

I'll grant you that you know more than most of the men who responded in this thread. But there are sizable gaps in your understanding.


Im curious to learn more, what gaps in my understanding do you notice?

(edit: it might be good to answer this elsewhere, not here)
15 hours

"soft girl"

Munchies:
You mean like a type A kinda person?

JN_TumLover56:
Ahhā€¦ sure you can say that. Itā€™s like when I am saying a ā€œsoftieā€ Iā€™m trying to say as to describe someone who is humble and kind or even down to earth. Instead of someone whoā€™s very uptight to a point where they come off as a rough person.

Iā€™m essentially saying something similar to what you said earlier but saying it in my own way yā€™know?

Munchies:
I see.

Yeah, no the soft girl doesn't exclude those kinds of women.

It should. The lifestyle champions being gentle, delicate, and carefree. But having interacted with a great many of the soft girl girlies, I can confirm most of them are mean.

Like ... meaner than me by a significant margin.


Seems like I canā€™t win no matter how much I try to counter you, even if I may have a point. Anyways Iā€™m going to head out to touch grass now. Highly recommend! šŸ’Æ
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