Fat experiences

GFYS im queer and bi not an egg, bigoted erasure minded person

So far it has not shrunk. Do you mean the fat pad is encroaching? Because fat pads are soft and even though it’s covering an inch or so. It has not gotten in the way of making love with my 340 pound partner.

Not even a little. Pounding gets all the inches hidden, the fat pad is just cushion for the impacts. Maybe once it encroaches more, but I’m not at all interested in my penis being buried and useless because it’s a point of pride in my life, what I’ve been able to do with it. Even now, struggling and panting with my belly in the way i can still make total use of it.

It might actually be the only thing that makes me back off from gaining if it gets bad enough, but we’ll see

woooooow the misogyny, homophobia, fatphobia and just general blatant disregard for facts in this thread are off the charts

Ikr someone just called everyone eggs, this site needs moderators

I think we can just agree to disagree, and say fat is affirming to some degree regardless of identity.

But as a fat man, I really don’t have hips or ass like at all lol.

Let's not shove our opinions about gender and sexuality on other people when they don't invite it, maybe?

I absolutely am all about genderqueering etc, but I cringe when someone calls other people eggs or the like without them inviting it.

If you want to quietly muse about how they might be unaware they're trans, do that to yourself.

Speaking as someone who has been upset at being called an egg *while I am 100% aware that I am genderqueer*.

LGBT+ labels are delicate things, and people can explore their gender without being an "egg" or "trans" or etc etc

While I understand people being upset with that comment. I wouldn't take it too personally. I think Urchie was just trying to be cheeky as usual. Their comments have that blunt sort of humor if I worded it right. I would just block and maybe take a break if your mental health is affected.

I’m just sayin, there’s def a masculine way to get fat. Like hello, most of the weight being in the midsection, moobs big enough to look kind of like swelled up pecs but not big enough to look like breasts, slightly thicc thighs, body hair everywhere??

lol, i didn't know what this meant.

i am old, sorry, lol, my slang is vintage.

my partner, who is both trans and more than a decade younger than me (but still probably old from urchie's point of view) explained it to me.,

we both thought it was funny, not offensive.

it seemed to read the room pretty well, and wasn't directed at anyone in particular.

I get what you’re saying but as a straight guy who got fat because I was depressed for not feeling manly enough it’s not great to see that lmao. Dw, I’m going to the gym and stuff now and that’s helping with that feeling but that was my experience with it.