JN_TumLover56:
Funny thing I don’t think it’s often talked about that even people like us who like bigger people get our fair share of hate as well. I’ve been called many things like: “Delusional/Disgusting” “Torta Pounder” “Liar” “Liberal” and things of why that I even find someone bigger than me attractive while saying such dehumanizing terms.
People who don’t understand something are going to hate it, it’s basically an easier response in a way. I know that it’s not very fun to be at the receiving end of the negativity from people. But for me personally I try my best to prioritize my own happiness over other people’s opinions. In fact, this should be about YOUR love life and should be about what YOU are attracted to. And if others tell you otherwise, then it’s on them and what they have been indoctrinated into believing.
yeah exactly, like ive been trying to prioritize my own preferences and even be proud of them, and admit them fully to people. like i’ll straight up be telling ppl im into fat guys, its just kind of hard when all i receive back is either people thinking im joking or straight up criticism. like god forbid a girl want a bigger man.
