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Anyone else tired of feedism getting in the way of dating ?

GoddessRandi:
I just had a disrespectful guy tell me they wanted me to be "their closeted trans and their closeted feedee"...

So many guys on this site ruin the experience altogether 😡

KlondikeBar:
I agree. That's why I kept my gender secret. My most insane DM was this French dude wanting to marry me and rub my feet during my old account.


That doesn't quite sound so bad tbh. At least he wanted to marry you lol

Guys are so weird on here tho 😭
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Anyone else tired of feedism getting in the way of dating ?

Beachside Farmer:
The name Fantasy in FF is taken very serious on this site. When you have someone who you connect with sometimes they vanish off the site and you restart. Don't give up. There is a Feeder for a Feedee for every feedist.

Speaking from experience.


This is called survivorship bias, and is a fallacy. The fact of the matter is that a lot of long-term-oriented feedees are competing for a small pool of actually dedicated feeders, just as a matter of finances. It is literally impossible for what you say to be true. The numbers just do not bear out in what data Kita has been able to collect.

This is not meant to discourage anyone. You just shouldn't promise things based on a fallacy.
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Anyone else tired of feedism getting in the way of dating ?

GoddessRandi:
I just had a disrespectful guy tell me they wanted me to be "their closeted trans and their closeted feedee"...

So many guys on this site ruin the experience altogether 😡

KlondikeBar:
I agree. That's why I kept my gender secret. My most insane DM was this French dude wanting to marry me and rub my feet during my old account.

GoddessRandi:
That doesn't quite sound so bad tbh. At least he wanted to marry you lol

Guys are so weird on here tho 😭
Actually I had a worse one but was embarrassed to share it. One guy who was my former friend was into women padding themselves and often requested me try it out even though I told him I wasn't into it. He is autistic and decades older than me. I am also on the spectrum although not diagnosed.

(redacted rest of post for personal reasons)
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Anyone else tired of feedism getting in the way of dating ?

Nathan P:
I just can't see my self in relationship without feedism and it sucks . The problem is this fetish feels so niche. There really isn't that many people near me who are into it me and even less that want a relationship.


i feel the exact same way like its practically impossible to find a big male with a nice face whos my type physically (like big) who wants to get bigger
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Anyone else tired of feedism getting in the way of dating ?

Nathan P:
I just can't see my self in relationship without feedism and it sucks . The problem is this fetish feels so niche. There really isn't that many people near me who are into it me and even less that want a relationship. Everyone now and then someone will come along and give you a bit of hope but it never seems to go anywhere. I just feel like I'm always an expendable second option 😔

Sorry for making a bit of a downer post but I just need to vent and was just wondering if anyone else feels like this ?


Yes. It's to the point where I've decided to leave the community. I've met nice people and terrible people. Fantasy feeder has mostly been positive but feederism isn't even remotely common here or online
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