Angy523:
Sooo, I need to know if it's wrong what I'm doing. Long story short: my bf gained some more weight during holidays (just as everyone else I guess) and he got to the point when some of his clothes got really tight. So I bought him as a Christmas gift some clothes a bigger size. At first he was surprised when he saw the size, but they fit well and after the holidays he uses those clothes the most. Also, I saw his belt from his work uniform got uncomfortably tight so I loosen it up a bit (it isn't the usual kind if belt which you choose how tight it will be every time you put it on, this one is like a tactical belt so you choose how tight you want it and then you just put it on at the same size until you decide to modify it). I did this only because he stays like 12hrs at work and I didn't want him to feel so uncomfortable.
Is it ok to do this kind of things for his own comfort? I don't do it to make him think he didn't gain or something (I saw this kind of thinking somwhere on this site), he knows his weight very well since he steps on the scale almost every day. Also, I agreed when he told me he got fatter (well, I also added he got sexier and that his belly turns me on and since then he ate even more).
I think what you're doing is perfectly fine. You didn't hide what size the new clothes were, so you weren't being deceptive with them, and I think anyone that loves their partner wants them to be comfortable.
You're also being honest with him by acknowledging that he's gained weight and letting him know you still find him sexy. Keep that up so he knows he doesn't need to worry about gaining a little more.
