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Angy523   Russian Federation
Joined 4 years
Ex Jock:
Wow happy for you, sounds like he’s getting into it or at least embracing it to be comfortable enough to indulge you with it. Are you still losing weight or he still rubbing off on you? If it’s the former and you are concerned about his health, you can always take him on walks and like exercise just to keep moving and off the couch enough to stay functional. A little cardio won’t kill his gains, but def will help in the long run. Also +1 with what munchies said about curbing the soda addiction. If he/you still want the calories, whole milk is more calories than soda anyway but without all the sugar and acidity.

Exciting time for you, hope you guys keep it up!


I lost some weight, but at this point it's hard to say without a scale. If I gained anything lately, it isn't much anyway. I think of this possibility since we lived with his mom for some weeks and he cooks really fattening food. Also I still eat some junk food. Sometimes I eat too much, sometimes almost nothing, so I don't know what will happen.

Back to my bf - He will not drink or eat something just for the calories. He eats or drinks anything he likes. He doesn't like milk, but soda is almost an addiction at this point. I'm thinking to make fresh juice for him or something. I talked to him to drink less soda, but everytime he said he will stop drinking it, he still did it.

At some point he asked me to buy soda and hide it from him so I can give him just a bottle of 0,5 everyday, at least he'll consume less. But he was also askig to go to mc or other fast foods where he was also adding soda to the order. Or he was drinking soda at work...

If he eats fast food or chips, he says he must have soda with them...I guess it won't be easy to change this.

But it's important to me. I wanted him fat, but I also want him healthy
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

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Angy523   Russian Federation
Joined 4 years
Ex Jock:
Wow happy for you, sounds like he’s getting into it or at least embracing it to be comfortable enough to indulge you with it. Are you still losing weight or he still rubbing off on you? If it’s the former and you are concerned about his health, you can always take him on walks and like exercise just to keep moving and off the couch enough to stay functional. A little cardio won’t kill his gains, but def will help in the long run. Also +1 with what munchies said about curbing the soda addiction. If he/you still want the calories, whole milk is more calories than soda anyway but without all the sugar and acidity.

Exciting time for you, hope you guys keep it up!


I lost some weight, but at this point it's hard to say without a scale. If I gained anything lately, it isn't much anyway. I think of this possibility since we lived with his mom for some weeks and he cooks really fattening food. Also I still eat some junk food. Sometimes I eat too much, sometimes almost nothing, so I don't know what will happen.

Back to my bf - He will not drink or eat something just for the calories. He eats or drinks anything he likes. He doesn't like milk, but soda is almost an addiction at this point. I'm thinking to make fresh juice for him or something. I talked to him to drink less soda, but everytime he said he will stop drinking it, he still did it.

At some point he asked me to buy soda and hide it from him so I can give him just a bottle of 0,5 everyday, at least he'll consume less. But he was also askig to go to mc or other fast foods where he was also adding soda to the order. Or he was drinking soda at work...

If he eats fast food or chips, he says he must have soda with them...I guess it won't be easy to change this.

But it's important to me. I wanted him fat, but I also want him healthy
2 years

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FatLime   Russian Federation
Joined 6 years
Ex Jock:
Wow happy for you, sounds like he’s getting into it or at least embracing it to be comfortable enough to indulge you with it. Are you still losing weight or he still rubbing off on you? If it’s the former and you are concerned about his health, you can always take him on walks and like exercise just to keep moving and off the couch enough to stay functional. A little cardio won’t kill his gains, but def will help in the long run. Also +1 with what munchies said about curbing the soda addiction. If he/you still want the calories, whole milk is more calories than soda anyway but without all the sugar and acidity.

Exciting time for you, hope you guys keep it up!

Angy523:
I lost some weight, but at this point it's hard to say without a scale. If I gained anything lately, it isn't much anyway. I think of this possibility since we lived with his mom for some weeks and he cooks really fattening food. Also I still eat some junk food. Sometimes I eat too much, sometimes almost nothing, so I don't know what will happen.

Back to my bf - He will not drink or eat something just for the calories. He eats or drinks anything he likes. He doesn't like milk, but soda is almost an addiction at this point. I'm thinking to make fresh juice for him or something. I talked to him to drink less soda, but everytime he said he will stop drinking it, he still did it.

At some point he asked me to buy soda and hide it from him so I can give him just a bottle of 0,5 everyday, at least he'll consume less. But he was also askig to go to mc or other fast foods where he was also adding soda to the order. Or he was drinking soda at work...

If he eats fast food or chips, he says he must have soda with them...I guess it won't be easy to change this.

But it's important to me. I wanted him fat, but I also want him healthy


The thing is, regular water has no flavor, but soda does. You can try to buy ordinary berry-flavored water at the store and switch him to it. It might make it easier to give up sugary drinks that way. From my experience, I know that you can give up soda at any time, but there is a nuance - regular water at first will seem strange to taste, because after soda you do not get such pleasure. The effect lasts literally 1-2 days, after which I no longer drink soda.
Sorry it's not in Russian, probably would have deleted my reply.
2 years

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Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
Morbidly A Beast:
Let the man have a soda if that’s what he wants 😭

but I get it it’s not the best for you, juice isn’t that much better. Is diet soda an option?


The issue isn't the soda. The issue is that he is drinking a 2L bottle of soda every day. That's going to jack the man up all kinds of ways.
2 years

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FatLime   Russian Federation
Joined 6 years
Morbidly A Beast:
Let the man have a soda if that’s what he wants 😭

but I get it it’s not the best for you, juice isn’t that much better. Is diet soda an option?


To me, sugar free sodas taste disgusting and the aftertaste is like someone died.
2 years

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Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
Morbidly A Beast:
Let the man have a soda if that’s what he wants 😭

but I get it it’s not the best for you, juice isn’t that much better. Is diet soda an option?

FatLime:
To me, sugar free sodas taste disgusting and the aftertaste is like someone died.


Idk about someone dying, but the flavor makes me wish I did.
2 years

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Angy523   Russian Federation
Joined 4 years
Morbidly A Beast:
Let the man have a soda if that’s what he wants 😭

but I get it it’s not the best for you, juice isn’t that much better. Is diet soda an option?


He hates diet soda.
Also, I don't mind him drinking soda, I actually enjoyed it since this made his belly bigger at some point, but I just think he should consume less soda, that's all. He has the same opinion, without me saying anything to him anyway, this is why he asked me at some point to hide the soda so he can't find it =))
2 years

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Angy523   Russian Federation
Joined 4 years
I guess my bf actually became a feedee. Why I say that?

-> he used to tell me that he will lose weight if his belly starts to hang, but now he came to tell me some of his friends told him his belly is starting to hang and he was kinda proud about it
-> we were playing a game with some random questions and one of them was "what would you do if you had only one day left", his answer was that he would stuff himself and would spend time with me
-> lately he plays with his belly more than I do
-> I told him he looks sexier and he told me that he is for sure because he got bigger
-> He wanted to start going to the gym and he asked me what should he eat to get bigger (ik this is very common for the ones whe go to the gym for muscle gaining, but in the past when my bf was talking about gym, he was talking about losing weight)
-> He gets horny if I touch his belly or if I talk about it
2 years

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Munchies   United States
Joined 4 years
Angy523:
I guess my bf actually became a feedee. Why I say that?

-> he used to tell me that he will lose weight if his belly starts to hang, but now he came to tell me some of his friends told him his belly is starting to hang and he was kinda proud about it
-> we were playing a game with some random questions and one of them was "what would you do if you had only one day left", his answer was that he would stuff himself and would spend time with me
-> lately he plays with his belly more than I do
-> I told him he looks sexier and he told me that he is for sure because he got bigger
-> He wanted to start going to the gym and he asked me what should he eat to get bigger (ik this is very common for the ones whe go to the gym for muscle gaining, but in the past when my bf was talking about gym, he was talking about losing weight)
-> He gets horny if I touch his belly or if I talk about it


I love how you guys worked past everything to get to this point. Love this for you two.
2 years

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TheWhipHand   United States
Joined 8 years
Angy523:
I know there are already some topics with the same subject, but maybe I'll find some similar situations with mine.

Soo, long story short, I would like my boyfriend fatter, but he is losing weight. Ofc this doesn't change how I feel about him and I won't force anything, but I don't understand why. When I met him, he was 10kgs heavier than he is now. He actually was joking about his belly and he always told me even I don't like his belly, I will get used to it. For some reason, he thought all my exs had 6 packs and he still thinks I would prefer a boyfriend with abs, but I assured him all my exs had bellies and I don't care about having abs. He started losing weight on purpose and he wants to get abs now. I tried to tease him telling him he'll have a belly in the next years and he always told me he doesn't mind that.

It should be easier for him to gain weight since his eating habits are pretty much helpful. He likes sweets and sometimes he drinks just soda (or at least he used to, now he is drinking less soda...he actually didn't drink it for some weeks, now he started to do it again). The only problem is that when he is around me sometimes he skips meals because I do so (lately I convinced him to eat even when I don't, but I still think he is eating less than he needs). I know in the past, when he was 15kgs heavier than he is now, he used to eat even 2 pizzas, but now he said half of one pizza is enough for him. Also, during these months he has some important exams which keep him busy and he doesn't always have time to eat.

Any suggestions?


Tough one. Maybe try finding out why he feels the need to lose weight. My little husband had been a chubby little boy, but had been put on a strict diet. Over time he internalised the need to be thinner, and it took a while to get him out of that mindset.
Secretly he was a little butterball at heart - he loves cakes, cookies and sweets - he was only resisting because he had been influenced.
When you go out, go to a place with good desserts, and order one for yourself, even if you have no intention of eating it. Watch what he does. Does he simply not eat it? Or does he eat it up greedily, just trying to be healthy? Mine would do the latter, so I knew he had a little fattie inside.
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