ScandinavianFA:
Just discovered this thread this morning and read all of it in one sitting. What an amazing development, kudos to you for sharing it.
Sounds like your wife is now almost actively gaining(?) or at the very least gaining with less feeding/prep work on your part? I could be wrong of course. (And the “work” is half the fun anyway, so don’t get me wrong)
Have you given any thought as to what led her to give in to becoming a big girl? Happiness and contentment? Positive attention? Newfound erotic appeal? All of the above lol. Either way it sounds like you have approached this in the most healthy and loving way possible. Hats off to you sir.
I believe the pandemic is what tipped the scales

I asked her about it and she even said it was the pandemic and everything else was reinforcing. Keep in mind she is also career driven, so working from home also made it easier as she wasn't concerned about others judging her body at work and potential career impact.
That being said she did start a new job this year which requires more travel and in person meetings. That did have an effect on her. She tried on a business outfit, a pencil skirt. She liked how she looked and flaunted her shape in front of me with a big grin on her face as she checked herself out....but also realized she can't go to meetings with her large ass being such a distraction.
She's since lost 25lbs. Originally 30 but she gained 5lbs back since the post about her dress on vacation. That being said she's a tad over 5'1" so 20 lbs is a lot on her frame. When she was at 230 her body resembled online models like Kandi Kayne. We also could not have sex in missionary as her belly would keep her from breathing. One of my favorite positions for her and also one that she enjoyed ..pretzel position was a no go. She could pretty much only have sex doggy style especially since she wasn't into cow girl.
She is starting to gain the weight back as she gets comfortable with her new team members in her new company. The fact that her boss is a woman that is borderline BBW probably helps....she even mentioned that her boss made a comment about her also being a woman with "hips that don't lie."
Like I said, she's gained about 5lbs back. Last night she stretched her belly out when I got her a meal that was just too good for her....I'll write about that one shortly. She enjoys food too much.