juicy:As someone who did not adore breastfeeding, even though I sometimes have mutual ANR fantasies, let me remind you of the downsides.
A. you suddenly find yourself in public with a wet t-shirt.
B. you ache if you aren't emptied regularly.
C. I thought pumping hurt like a ... well, you know.
Just some realities to check in on before flying with the fantasy!
These are some of the things I love most about ANR!
A wet shirt! Oops! I guess everyone knows I’m lactating now and even more aware of my huge tits!
Give me the ache! It feels so good and reinforces the bond and need for my partner!
Pumping is how I think I was able to put on weight! And it feels good! Hook me up and give me snacks and I’m in heaven and often touching myself before I’m done!
Everyone’s perspective is going to be different about the downsides.
To me there are SO many positives about ANR… the only clear negative is the amount of time you have to devote to it can keep you limited and you have to plan ahead a bit more which for a spontaneous person like me can be a challenge. With a supportive invested partner it makes it worth it tho!