Gaining

Why is it a fantasy only? I liked your description and you had quite some responses. That means that there are many sub-feedees thinking about it.
I am a feeder and I am a Dominant and I have lived both likings for the last 25 years. I had slaves and I had feedees and I am lookng for my ultimate relationship. I don't see any moral and practical difficulties!

If two (or more adults) agree about their roles as Feeder/Master and Feedee/slave - why shouldn't they just live it??

That's fine, but that's not the Evil Feeder fantasy.

An Evil Feeder does not give his victim a choice. He kidnaps her, imprisons her, and enslaves her.

This is illegal everywhere (as far as I know!) And immoral, as you're taking away someone's freedom and taking them away from their family and friends. And impractical, as it's very hard to take care a of a prisoner like this. What about dental care, health care, nosy neighbors?

This is why the Evil Feeder fantasy, while physically possible, will usually be and should always be just a fantasy.

oh i so love this idea
imagine getting it fullfilled by a sexy seductive feminine shaped girl with cute looks ^^ and the ability to tease you so nicely about your little new gains here and there ...:-)

ohhhh ;-) i would love to experience that !!!^^

One doesn't have to desire to be enslaved by some moustache-twirling, pudding-wielding villain to be a feedee (although I have my doubts about the usefulness of that term in any event): there's no reason why a simple desire to overindulge and enjoy the delicious effects of that overindulgence on your figure will not more than suffice.

I never really got the whole "evil feeder" or humiliation business myself, and think that it's far more lovely just to aid and abet curve-inducing overindulgence instigated by the object of one's desires herself. (Incidentally, judging by your rather delicious pictures, you're doing a good job of that already...).

mrman is correct. You certainly can be a feedee or feeder without liking the "Evil Feeder" fantasy.

(Personally, it's not even my favorite fantasy, just one of many.)

Yes, always!

Ok of course i would love to have the evil feeder thing done to me lol more kind of a nver ending roleplay between two loving ppl and in many different ways ^^

aaaand ;-) of course would i love more the cuddling thing the whole week than the rough part ^^ :-)

but who says an evil feeder couldn´t be nice during the week and just say things like :

"I stood the whole day buying that cake for you at least try a littlebit and cutting off an good half ^^ and seducing the otherone to eat it ^^!"

nevertheless an nice topic ....

hihi oh My !!!

that is so perfect ^^ :-)

where can i meet you ? ^^

;-)

I don't call it "Evil" for nothing!

The Evil Feeder could be relatively gentle, simply taking away your TV privileges if you don't eat enough or something like that.

But it's still an awful lot like rape, I must admit.

Which means that it's not for you, and that's okay. It's not for a lot of people, and that's okay.

If it's not fun for someone to be treated this way, then they shouldn't be treated that way by a partner- it's abusive and yes, it would be traumatic.

But it is something that some people are into. And while you wouldn't wish it on anyone else, it's what they want.

If it's something that is really so bad an experience for you, I'd say don't agree to do it, even if your partner wants to; weighing your own emotions against their desires in this scenario will only be good for you. But I'm an outsider and I don't know your relationships or anything, so take this advice with however much salt you will.