I love FF because it is a place where my love of BHMS and my desire to help my bf attain his goal of weighing 300 lbs while maintaining good health and fitness will be understood, appreciated, and encouraged. Before I met my bf/feedee on FF, I loved looking at the FF male photos; I love seeing photos and footage of big guys with no shirts that were not taken/filmed as a joke at the guys' expense. We do not see enough body positive BHM pics in the media. The majority of over weight men suffer silently because they are told that expressing body dissatisfaction is unmanly. I will tell anyone who asks that I'm an FA, and I long for the day when feederism becomes as socially accepted as being LGBTQ. I also appreciate FF because I am a little chubby myself; I feel more beautiful at my current 16 W size than I would at a smaller size, and it is nice to be able to read posts by other women who choose to be plus size and remind myself that I'm not crazy for wanting a flabby tummy aND thick thighs, that paying $12 a week to starve myself at Weight Watchers was crazy, especially since I did not lose any weight during the last 6 months I tortured myself. Welcome to FF, LatteMadonna, you're among friends, sorry your husband doesn't appreciate how lucky he is; he sounds like a jerk.
8 years