Extreme obesity

i get told several times by my family, friends and coworkers to lose weight.
it's not annoying anymore, but turns me on

My endocrinologist keeps telling me to lose weight. I go back to her office tomorrow and I’m definitely bigger than I was the first time I seen her so I’m sure she’s going to tell me to lose weight again tomorrow. No one else tells me though, but my wife and I live with her parents and they’re both big, so is my wife.