Truth is, some of us have a ego and we go where we can find "attention" for things that we like; a part of wants to always go where we are accepted. I have always seen myself as a fat man and got plenty of attention before I became obese years ago. I had to own that I put myself into a position in which in some Westernized countries, fat is seen as obscene but in my community it was different. I met an older female who showed me that in places like Louisiana and Texas here in the states; in my community it was seen that a female is taking care of her man if his guts hangs. Some of us don't get the attention we want from the opposite sex so we try to get in where we fit in. For me, I like women and I will be single and own it until I find a female who appreciates my flabbiness....
4 years
