AskDrFeeder:Don't be a "Kyle"!

Sometimes it feels like that's exactly what many here want to have.
A few times when I've tried to talk to some folks on here, they seemed to clam up when I try to ask them things about life, things they find fun (besides eating), and so on.
This is strictly anecdotal, and shouldn't be interpreted as a blanket statement. However, it's frustrating. The fact I like big women, or the fact I'm also trying to gain a little weight myself, is only a small part of me.
Gaining won't last forever, but hopefully the relationship (whether friends or romantic) does.