WideJuan76:
But the I am fat aspect is just the gateway and starting point; it is the I am obese part that ultimately takes some of us under and those of is with a certain personality type will always succumb to it. Noticing you are fat is when you can get into your jeans but you can't fasten the button while the I AM OBESE part is when you notice that you can feel your belly jiggle, the back fat of your thighs jiggle, each butt cheeks jiggling and your calf fat all move simultaneously and that leads to sensory overload and you then realize that you just don't have the discipline anymore to lose three hundred pounds so you just give in
Bicepsual:
This. There was such a big lifestyle change right when my wife started referring to herself as fat (the way you call yourself obese). That moment when there was no more denial, she self-identified as being fat, all of a sudden she seemed to give in so much more to hedonistic eating and being lazy.
"Why not order a 2nd pizza for myself to eat later? I'm already fat. Nobody will even notice at this point."
But the I am fat aspect is just the gateway and starting point; it is the I am obese part that ultimately takes some of us under and those of is with a certain personality type will always succumb to it. Noticing you are fat is when you can get into your jeans but you can't fasten the button while the I AM OBESE part is when you notice that you can feel your belly jiggle, the back fat of your thighs jiggle, each butt cheeks jiggling and your calf fat all move simultaneously and that leads to sensory overload and you then realize that you just don't have the discipline anymore to lose three hundred pounds so you just give in
Bicepsual:
This. There was such a big lifestyle change right when my wife started referring to herself as fat (the way you call yourself obese). That moment when there was no more denial, she self-identified as being fat, all of a sudden she seemed to give in so much more to hedonistic eating and being lazy.
"Why not order a 2nd pizza for myself to eat later? I'm already fat. Nobody will even notice at this point."
Everyone gets fat at some point in their lives but earning your obesity is a whole other monster. It is harder to lose weight then it is to gain weight so most of us come to a crossroads in which we are either going to lose it all or say the hell with it and keep going and she cane to that fork and the road and she took that fork and said to herself that she is going to use that fork to get fat with. She saw her fate and she gave in to this addiction because don't get it twisted we feedees are food addicts to the third power but most of us will never tell you that. You have to psychologically morph your mindset to say to yourself that you are going to eat and eat to the point that your need to eat superceded your need to have sex because the more you eat the more fat your partner will have to dig through to entice you. 🐽🐽🐽🐽🐽🐽🐽
3 years
