Fattening others

Then stop doing it solo and get some support. If you are struggling, find someone who can hold you accountable.

And you should also talk to your bf about your concerns. Couple's diet habits normally rub off on each other. And unless you taker precations, you are going to be as fat as him - maybe fatter.

I'll ask a question here so I won't start another topic. Long story short, I have some problems with dieting (as can be seen on this topic). I lost some weight and I started eating like a pig again and I need help before it won't be too late.

So, the question: Is there anyone who is available to talk in private to give me some support and hold me accountable? In return, I can play the feeder role or idk, we can talk about anything or I can support you with something you need

I've been making an effort to lose a little weight over the past year or so, agreed with people near me to hold me accountable at the start but that didn't last long. If you're serious about losing you need to find the strength in yourself to keep at it, using others as a crutch won't work long in my experience

Buff feeder with a long-term feedee. If you do not purpose in your heart that you will stay in shape, you are going to get fat with your feedee.

You two will need to have different lifestyles and different diets.

I would talk to your feedee bf as he would be of better assistance than any of us.

I could do that if you want

Update: I think I will just give up trying to keep in shape for a while. Anyway it wasn't going great. My bf acts like a feeder sometimes, not with bad intentions, but just because he loves me and he tries to spoil me. We eat fast food often, every time we watch a movie we have a lot a of snacks, he makes sure he buys me soda every day (the difference is that he buys for himself 2L and for me just 0,5 because he knows I won't drink too much, but sometimes he tries to make me drink more). Also, when we go to fast food he orders a lot of things while I used to have the same small order, but he always tries to make me order more (sometimes I do) and he buys more food for him and give it to me. So this explains how we both gained weight lately.

Anyway, I'm not complaining, I like our relationship, even if I don't want to get fat, I discovered that for now I don't mind if I gain a little while my boyfriend is getting fat. I just love how his belly feels and how he gets out of breath after a little effort (well, tbh, lately it happens to me too). If I'm lucky, he will gain more this month like everyone does during holidays.

Here's to a long and happy relationship.

Soo, it kinda happened something weird today. We were at his parents' house, eating dinner, and his mom literally was stuffing me. Every time I said I had enough and I'm not able to eat more, she would give me more food. She used to do this with him, but never with me. Also, she actually told me I'm fat at some point (when I wasn't, I had visible abs at that moment) which obviously made me eat less when we were eating here.

im here if you want to talk.

I think it's to late for that. Even if I want to, it's too much weight to lose and it will make me quit easier.