Munchies:
My feedee is into humiliation, but he would never dare act like this. He respects himself and me far too much to act like this.
Ours is a relationship built on mutual respect and trust. When I say degrading things to him, he knows beyond a shadow of a doubt how much a treasure him. And I show him that all the time. We aren't each other's dirty secret. Our kinks are private, but we don't hide our feelings about each other from the outside world.
Fat Heidi:
Respect and consent is the key.
And communication too!! ^^
