Yes, I have met with 6 people from Feabie, but nobody from FF. None of them were a good match, unfortunately.
Quick summary of each one:
1. She was 13 years older than me, and we had a great time at her apartment getting her fuller than any human should ever be, but she ghosted.
2. She wanted me to feed her but lost her appetite after a few bites and just wanted to go down on me (I refused). She was devastatingly self-conscious and neurotic, and was a heavy pot smoker. No amount of kindness and assurance could've saved her so I had to cut her off. I later found out that she lied about her age, too (I've back-calculated; she was legal age, at least). I had to block.
3. I had to do a homework assignment the night she came over so she stuffed me while I worked. I was confused why she didn't want to talk after. Turns out, she committed to a partner one week after our meetup.
4. She wanted to be hand fed and have her belly rubbed in a public parking lot. Pretty fun except she yapped about how much she loves Trump and BBC (not the broadcasting group) the ENTIRE time. I blocked.
5. She was a well-known feedee, and I was genuinely shocked that she even answered my message, let alone agreed to meet up. 3 years older than me, by the way. We grabbed dinner at a restaurant, and to learn more about her, I asked followup questions about some of the topics we had discussed online. Her answers were making no sense. She then asked what I'm looking for and it just declined from there. I wondered if maybe she was just nervous, so I wanted to give it a second chance. She ghosted.
6. She was just visiting from Scotland so I took her to a buffet, then a few other classic American restaurants until she was too stuffed to keep sightseeing. We ended up back at my apartment where she stuffed me until I almost threw up.
An additional dozen or so from here and Feabie have agreed to meet up with me but never made themselves available.
I've found that, as the man, 1. You have to be aware that women on fetish sites (and online dating in general) are absolutely flooded with messages from horny dudes, and 2. That it's pretty scary to meet up with some random man from the internet. It takes a lot of trust building, listening, and patience from both parties to secure a meetup from a fetish site (unless both of you are quite horny individuals and/or you're not the most cautious).
I will say that it helps to have decent quality photos and a good bio, to be respectful, to throw in playful teasing, and to not make yourself too "available" or act desperate.
Don't spend too much time trying to make a meetup happen. There's way too much other stuff to focus on in life.
Quick summary of each one:
1. She was 13 years older than me, and we had a great time at her apartment getting her fuller than any human should ever be, but she ghosted.
2. She wanted me to feed her but lost her appetite after a few bites and just wanted to go down on me (I refused). She was devastatingly self-conscious and neurotic, and was a heavy pot smoker. No amount of kindness and assurance could've saved her so I had to cut her off. I later found out that she lied about her age, too (I've back-calculated; she was legal age, at least). I had to block.
3. I had to do a homework assignment the night she came over so she stuffed me while I worked. I was confused why she didn't want to talk after. Turns out, she committed to a partner one week after our meetup.
4. She wanted to be hand fed and have her belly rubbed in a public parking lot. Pretty fun except she yapped about how much she loves Trump and BBC (not the broadcasting group) the ENTIRE time. I blocked.
5. She was a well-known feedee, and I was genuinely shocked that she even answered my message, let alone agreed to meet up. 3 years older than me, by the way. We grabbed dinner at a restaurant, and to learn more about her, I asked followup questions about some of the topics we had discussed online. Her answers were making no sense. She then asked what I'm looking for and it just declined from there. I wondered if maybe she was just nervous, so I wanted to give it a second chance. She ghosted.
6. She was just visiting from Scotland so I took her to a buffet, then a few other classic American restaurants until she was too stuffed to keep sightseeing. We ended up back at my apartment where she stuffed me until I almost threw up.
An additional dozen or so from here and Feabie have agreed to meet up with me but never made themselves available.
I've found that, as the man, 1. You have to be aware that women on fetish sites (and online dating in general) are absolutely flooded with messages from horny dudes, and 2. That it's pretty scary to meet up with some random man from the internet. It takes a lot of trust building, listening, and patience from both parties to secure a meetup from a fetish site (unless both of you are quite horny individuals and/or you're not the most cautious).
I will say that it helps to have decent quality photos and a good bio, to be respectful, to throw in playful teasing, and to not make yourself too "available" or act desperate.
Don't spend too much time trying to make a meetup happen. There's way too much other stuff to focus on in life.
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