Fat experiences

And coming out of the left field: I gain because it feels like I’m growing into myself, changes from hormones are pretty obvious to begin with but combined with additional weight really makes a big difference.
As I grow, I feel like I’m understanding myself better as well-I never realised just how much I could fall in love with my own belly, how much better life is at a slower pace because I waddle along and actually notice the world around me, opposed to rushing and missing everything.
And obviously: food! Something that was just necessary fuel opposed to something to be enjoyed and savoured, I see my changes as only for the better.

Lots of things play into it. I’m in the 400’s now but at my heaviest I was nearly 600 lbs. I got addicted to the eating, the lazy lifestyle , the fact that I was my wife’s submissive and seeing me so helplessly fat turned her on.

Why do I like to keep gaining weight?

Most of my life I have been of an average weight until I noticed one year I couldn't seem to keep my waist down. I was getting a belly. It stressed me out and then people and especially children would look at me call me "Santa". I started looking at pictures of Santas and I discovered Fantasy Feeder. I realized that all I had to do was embrace my fatness. By changing my attitude, I became much happier. I even joined a Santa group even though I was the "skinniest" Santa there. The average Santa weighs between 265 and 320. I'm up to 245 now.

Generally being a nudie at home, I no longer looked at myself in the mirror with distain but excitement as I changed my diet to a fattening one. It's like being a beauty contestant, I guess, always examining my fat gains now as a positive thing - turning this way and that and delighting in my bigger belly, love handles and pannus (belly apron).

Growing out of my shirts and shopping for new ones has become fun. I am not one to let my lower belly show in public but I do like a good top that shows off how rotund I am getting in a modest way. After a while, there is no way to hide a protruding belly anyway. I enjoy the looks I get.

Like others have mentioned here, we can't control where our new fat is going to bloom and so it has been very interesting to see new fatty areas on me in my moobs, thighs, legs, calves, back and butt.

I suppose gaining weight on purpose is a bit of a narcistic behavior - beauty is in the eye of the beholder - and I am the beholder. I am sculpting my own new look of myself with fat.

Also, what makes it fun is having a community like Fantasy Feeder that understands, encourages and celebrates not only people like me who want to get fatter but others who admire people who want to gain weight. It is exciting to hear from a slender woman or man who has no intention of getting fat themselves but would certainly love to help you get blubbery!