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Feederism gets a bad reputation online

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MarkSeanDavis17   Canada
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My first exposure to feederism was through a YouTube video and the two people were on the EXTREME side of harmful feederism. It was not a consensual relationship so it was actually harmful. I was very turned off and didn't think it was for me. Then I stumbled upon it in someone's profile and quickly discovered the empowering side of this world. I'm glad I gave it another chance because I've made some strong connections in the last few months.
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Feederism gets a bad reputation online

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Stayff55   Poland
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I had a similar experience. In my country, if you were born big, there's no problem. If you gain weight on purpose or not, the family becomes a medical team.

Any mention of Feederism is stigmatized because people have seen one or two death feederism reporters.
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Feederism gets a bad reputation online

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Masuli   Finland
Joined 7 years
Masuli:
How about all Thinsinapiration crap that people are glorifying on internet & on these women over size 3 are considered obese whales by this movement.

Munchies:
Eugh, I can't stand that crowd. Had an iron grip that seems to be coming back.

I remember being 115 (underweight for my height of 5'7"smiley and being told I needed to lose 5 lbs because I was too heavy.


No offence but that is so little weight considered height because 5,7 is pretty tall for a woman. You were really slim & glad that you didn't lose anymore or fell that hole.
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Feederism gets a bad reputation online

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Masuli   Finland
Joined 7 years
SquishMaster:
I hate how feedism stuff is always portrayed as a kind of BDSM-offshoot. Like "Oh, he's only feeding her so she'll be helpless! No other reason!"

It's like they can't even conceive of the notion that a woman would want to get fatter for fatness' sake, vs it just being a power-dynamic thing.

Munchies:
People see feedism as men making women fat as a way to extort power over them. This, of course not only erases mutual gainers, queer gainers, bhms, and ffas, but it also does not accurately express feedism.

Can power play be a part of it? Yes. But I find most feedists are not into any aspect of BDSM.


Really well said and ratio between FFA to male gainers, BHM:s are really rare / really few. Hopefully it will chance in the future.
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Starfish   United Kingdom
Joined 7 months
In terms of the media, here in the UK, there was a documentary released regarding the different aspects of sex, and it covered feedism in an episode, which I thought was done quite tastefully!
They use to have the full episode up on Youtube, but obviously took it down. There is a short clip of it here:

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