MlekoWTubce:
Sorry for going silent, the relationship has ended. I will definetely go to therapist. Many great points was made here thanks again for your input. Take care everybody
Enas:
Im happy to hear that! This is the best ending it could have.
Going forward, try to make good friends. Try to learn as much as you can about narcissism in order to filter those out of potential friendships. I think you really need some true friends in your life.
I Am Uo:
Enas..... Why are you so obsessed with narcissists,
Enas:
Im not sure what exactly you mean by "obsessed", so i will interpret it as "very interested at".
The short answer is, because they are the single most harmful group of people. A good, although partial, long answer would be the video i linked in my first reply here.
Gonna push back against that.
Narcissism is a spectrum. It could be anything from small, passive-aggressive pettiness to being a monster. Throw in the fact that there's such a thing as Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which you
can treat and improve from, and it gets more complicated.
On top of this, you can still be a horrible, evil person and not be narcissistic. There's a psychological theory called "The Dark Triad" which discusses malevolent personality traits. Essentially, it claims people with such personalities have at least one of three traits:
Narcissism: grandiose sense of self, lack of empathy
Machiavellianism: strategic manipulation, disregard of morality
Psychopathy: lack of empathy and remorse, impulsive and antisocial behavior
You can have one or more of these traits. It's not always about narcissism. But just like narcissism, there's a sliding scale of intensity. Nuance is key.