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[24m] struggling with feederism and partner’s [24f] weight loss – need advice

I Am Uo:
Actually antisocial psychopaths are the most dangerous, and i asked because you bring it up a lot,


I get the sense you didn't research that before you wrote it.

Antisocial psychopaths, specifically, are very obvious to spot because antisocial behavior is unmasked! Meaning, you can at least know to avoid being with them, or placing them in positions of power. Narcissists on the other hand almost always mask their behavior, and they do that very well, so its very hard to spot them, and thus handle them apropriately. Especially so if people are not trained to recognize narcissistic traits. (Which most people do not)
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[24m] struggling with feederism and partner’s [24f] weight loss – need advice

I Am Uo:
Actually antisocial psychopaths are the most dangerous, and i asked because you bring it up a lot,

Enas:
I get the sense you didn't research that before you wrote it.

Antisocial psychopaths, specifically, are very obvious to spot because antisocial behavior is unmasked! Meaning, you can at least know to avoid being with them, or placing them in positions of power. Narcissists on the other hand almost always mask their behavior, and they do that very well, so its very hard to spot them, and thus handle them apropriately. Especially so if people are not trained to recognize narcissistic traits. (Which most people do not)


Last thing I'm saying to not derail this guys post,
Manipulation, does not equal dangerous, psychopaths are violent, now let's leave it at that so this can get back on topic
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[24m] struggling with feederism and partner’s [24f] weight loss – need advice

MlekoWTubce:
Sorry for going silent, the relationship has ended. I will definetely go to therapist. Many great points was made here thanks again for your input. Take care everybody

Enas:
Im happy to hear that! This is the best ending it could have.

Going forward, try to make good friends. Try to learn as much as you can about narcissism in order to filter those out of potential friendships. I think you really need some true friends in your life.

I Am Uo:
Enas..... Why are you so obsessed with narcissists,

Enas:
Im not sure what exactly you mean by "obsessed", so i will interpret it as "very interested at".

The short answer is, because they are the single most harmful group of people. A good, although partial, long answer would be the video i linked in my first reply here.


Gonna push back against that.

Narcissism is a spectrum. It could be anything from small, passive-aggressive pettiness to being a monster. Throw in the fact that there's such a thing as Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which you can treat and improve from, and it gets more complicated.

On top of this, you can still be a horrible, evil person and not be narcissistic. There's a psychological theory called "The Dark Triad" which discusses malevolent personality traits. Essentially, it claims people with such personalities have at least one of three traits:

Narcissism: grandiose sense of self, lack of empathy

Machiavellianism: strategic manipulation, disregard of morality

Psychopathy: lack of empathy and remorse, impulsive and antisocial behavior

You can have one or more of these traits. It's not always about narcissism. But just like narcissism, there's a sliding scale of intensity. Nuance is key.
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[24m] struggling with feederism and partner’s [24f] weight loss – need advice

MlekoWTubce:
Sorry for going silent, the relationship has ended. I will definetely go to therapist. Many great points was made here thanks again for your input. Take care everybody

Enas:
Im happy to hear that! This is the best ending it could have.

Going forward, try to make good friends. Try to learn as much as you can about narcissism in order to filter those out of potential friendships. I think you really need some true friends in your life.

I Am Uo:
Enas..... Why are you so obsessed with narcissists,

Enas:
Im not sure what exactly you mean by "obsessed", so i will interpret it as "very interested at".

The short answer is, because they are the single most harmful group of people. A good, although partial, long answer would be the video i linked in my first reply here.

Munchies:
Gonna push back against that.

Narcissism is a spectrum. It could be anything from small, passive-aggressive pettiness to being a monster. Throw in the fact that there's such a thing as Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which you can treat and improve from, and it gets more complicated.

On top of this, you can still be a horrible, evil person and not be narcissistic. There's a psychological theory called "The Dark Triad" which discusses malevolent personality traits. Essentially, it claims people with such personalities have at least one of three traits:

Narcissism: grandiose sense of self, lack of empathy

Machiavellianism: strategic manipulation, disregard of morality

Psychopathy: lack of empathy and remorse, impulsive and antisocial behavior

You can have one or more of these traits. It's not always about narcissism. But just like narcissism, there's a sliding scale of intensity. Nuance is key.


There are many problems in your response, though i should "reply" in a new post altogether, tbh.
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