NYCBellyBlimp:
Honestly wishing I had prepared better, knowing if my confidence was higher years earlier, I would have waited and saved $ vs buying the 5-6X clothing so soon vs the 2-4x that would fit (even if snug). Regretful as that could have went to food, savings or other expenses as I look back.
Being on the darker end of this lifestyle than most I would come across, I'm thankful to have listened and watched some experiences others have had and learn from them.
WideJuan76:
I felt that same way years ago but that fat realization comes when it comes. Had I known that there were women out here who not only loved fat men they wanted them to get even fatter than chubby. Hell, I would have done this post college and would have been set up for a whole infrastructure to complement what I was to become. I didn't find my obese mentor until I moved down south and he still advises me even up to as recent as yesterday.
NYCBellyBlimp:
Always good to have someone give a sincere heads up.
WideJuan76:
It is but most dudes don't even realize that there are more out there like them. When I met him down south, he had several guys and ladies that he was mentoring. I didn't realize til then that this was actually a thing especially in our community
NYCBellyBlimp:
Good point, as its not commonly discussed.
WideJuan76:
It isn't nor do they call it what they call it online. I didn't even know down south that it was sort of like a tradition for some families
quiverdream:
Wait, for reals? There are just families/communities in the South that train each other up to get chubby?
Why am I in New England still??
I don't know why but there are plenty down there. To them, the fatter that they could make their husband proved to other women from other families that they could take care of their men the best. I was telling my friend NYCBellyBlimp weeks ago about how I am most got recruited into their little group but I was too fearful because the males in the group were to the point of no return and they were no longer the men; they were just the FAT. There comes a time in a male feedees life when he has to make a choice of either he is going to eat so much that he can't have sex because there is too much fat between he and her and it's mostly his fat or he is going to have to stop. Those dudes only scared about the food and I like food but these dudes were Sitophiliacs.
